What my hot manager said about me......

[mtnmedic]

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Touch a nerve here ? I didn't just come off the top of my head with that lily,..it's based on experience. I had more women blow me off cause of my height, age and what I have in my bank account than me having HIV for cryin' out loud !! and yes "dinner and a movie" is corny I was only using that as an example.

[Lily]

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Touch a nerve here ? I didn't just come off the top of my head with that lily,..it's based on experience. I had more women blow me off cause of my height, age and what I have in my bank account than me having HIV for cryin' out loud !! and yes "dinner and a movie" is corny I was only using that as an example.

Then your hitting on the wrong type of women!

I guess I just hate all the bashing whether it's men or women...no one is perfect and a relationship is what you make of it...

I think some people have this big fantasy as to what love is suppose to be...I think there are many different levels of love....I think real love in a relationship is two people supporting each other in anything and everything they do and being there for them when they need them, and really knowing the other person and their needs...and not judging them when they make a mistake no matter how big or small. Don't let things fester and build up until you explode!

on a side note:
LOL If i was single now and had a "friend", he would go home when he is done! "and please lock the door on the way out, and be sure to always call before you come over"..... LOLOL

[crombie09]

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Post some pics of the hairline.....

She was actually refering to my neckline. Im OCD about it. It has to be nice (cleaned up) and straight all the time. I dont know why it bugs me so bad.

[kite]

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Edit: posted something in the wrong damn thread, I'm a dumbass today.

[mtnmedic]

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The wrong women ? these are women that say all they want is a guy who's honest, loving and will be there for them all that other good stuff. But time and time again it all boils down to the guy with the bigger and better offer... and guys are the same way. And your right, most of us are probally with that right person,..we just cant live with them.

[Lily]

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The wrong women ? these are women that say all they want is a guy who's honest, loving and will be there for them all that other good stuff. But time and time again it all boils down to the guy with the bigger and better offer... and guys are the same way. And your right, most of us are probally with that right person,..we just cant live with them.

It's hard to say why people do and say the things they do.....I think you just need to take it day by day and make each day the best it can be....

[mick-G]

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She probably is very attracted to him but doesn't want him to think badly of her by just coming out and telling him she wants sex..... men are funny that way... you all say you want a woman to come right out and say "Let's just go phuck" but at the same time your thinkng "she's easy" or something similar, and probably will go brag to all your friends about the woman that came onto you & phucked your brains out in the copy room!

She maybe doesnt know how to just come out and say 'I want you' ..maybe it DOES make her feel slutty and she doesnt want him thinking that way of her either...just because she wants to date first does not mean she wants him to spend money on her...maybe she wants to TALK and get to know him first ??? what is wrong with that? I know plenty of things to do for a date that doesnt involve spending money.... you men always think dinner or movies..get more creative!

what are you looking for anyway?? The perfect woman?? LOL good friggin luck! She's with the perfect man on another planet! Oh wait, there is no perfect man!

I don't know Lily, lol....? The way her note reads to me is that she is being very explicit about what she wants him to do to her, then on another note she is saying she wants to date? In my experience a woman that is being that blatant is usually playing games. To my understanding Combie didn't even bring up the getting laid, she did. Perhaps some men like this approach, but for me it would be a total turn off. If a woman is going to be direct then just do that, not say one thing, then contradict yourself in the next sentance, lol! Not to brag, but i have gone out with alot of women before i was married, and trust me i experimented alot with psychology and women. I remember going on dates and playing it down, drove my Chrysler, wore some khakis and a nice dress shirt. I purposley played myself down, but i acted like myself and treated them with the utmost respect, and ya know what i got?? "Where do you work, whats my education, they got into my personality like they were trying to pick at things to find something wrong and i would never see them again or call. Then on my next approach, i would ware my designer clothes, Armani, Gucci, my Patek Philippe, and drove up in my Ferrari. Still acted like myself.. You know what??? No questions, all smiles, they were at my beck and call. I dumped them as well. Don't tell me all women want on dates are to go somewhere cheap or do something that doesn't cost anything, because it just isn't true. Yes, if you have been going out for 6months or a yr and have a commitment (meaning you are exclusive to them), but not dating. Iam not saying here that all women play games, because that isn't true either. Just sounds like this one is, imo. Let me add, that all men are not created equal, the same goes with men.

[Lily]

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I don't know Lily, lol....? The way her note reads to me is that she is being very explicit about what she wants him to do to her, then on another note she is saying she wants to date? In my experience a woman that is being that blatant is usually playing games. To my understanding Combie didn't even bring up the getting laid, she did. Perhaps some men like this approach, but for me it would be a total turn off. If a woman is going to be direct then just do that, not say one thing, then contradict yourself in the next sentance, lol! Not to brag, but i have gone out with alot of women before i was married, and trust me i experimented alot with psychology and women. I remember going on dates and playing it down, drove my Chrysler, wore some khakis and a nice dress shirt. I purposley played myself down, but i acted like myself and treated them with the utmost respect, and ya know what i got?? "Where do you work, whats my education, they got into my personality like they were trying to pick at things to find something wrong and i would never see them again or call. Then on my next approach, i would ware my designer clothes, Armani, Gucci, my Patek Philippe, and drove up in my Ferrari. Still acted like myself.. You know what??? No questions, all smiles, they were at my beck and call. I dumped them as well. Don't tell me all women want on dates are to go somewhere cheap or do something that doesn't cost anything, because it just isn't true. Yes, if you have been going out for 6months or a yr and have a commitment (meaning you are exclusive to them), but not dating. Iam not saying here that all women play games, because that isn't true either. Just sounds like this one is, imo. Let me add, that all men are not created equal, the same goes with men.

I definitely think this woman wants to get laid....and she is playing the "I'm really a good girl" card....lol but like I said before, if men didnt call us sluts for wanting sex before everything else, then women wouldnt have to play that card either....maybe she wants to see if he is REALLY interested in her sexually too before she pounces?! LOL Women get turned down, too ya know!

Maybe I just don't fall in the "typical woman" category.....??
I just say it....I've gotten myself in trouble on more than one occasion by saying what i am thinking or feeling and I'm sure I will again, ...lucky my husband knows what type of woman he married...at least that what he tells me LOL

i think this thread has been beat to death now...

so crom..just come out and ask her if she wants to get laid or what?! LOL

[mick-G]

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I definitely think this woman wants to get laid....and she is playing the "I'm really a good girl" card....lol but like I said before, if men didnt call us sluts for wanting sex before everything else, then women wouldnt have to play that card either....maybe she wants to see if he is REALLY interested in her sexually too before she pounces?! LOL Women get turned down, too ya know!

Maybe I just don't fall in the "typical woman" category.....??
I just say it....I've gotten myself in trouble on more than one occasion by saying what i am thinking or feeling and I'm sure I will again, ...lucky my husband knows what type of woman he married...at least that what he tells me LOL

i think this thread has been beat to death now...

so crom..just come out and ask her if she wants to get laid or what?! LOL

Well, we are at least in agreement about this woman, lol! I personally don't think any woman is "typical", but iam just going by my experiences. If this woman were not "easy" then she would not have been explict in her note, and then after dating, if an intimate situation arose, then all she would have to say, is "Im not ready yet". I respect that in a woman much more then this note. Also, I personnaly like a woman who can speak her word and say what she means. At least she is being truthfull and honest, if it gets you into trouble, so be it, lol! One thing is certain...It is Combie's call on wheather to initate or not. I think she spelled it out good enough.

[Lily]

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Well, we are at least in agreement about this woman, lol! I personally don't think any woman is "typical", but iam just going by my experiences. If this woman were not "easy" then she would not have been explict in her note, and then after dating, if an intimate situation arose, then all she would have to say, is "Im not ready yet". I respect that in a woman much more then this note. Also, I personnaly like a woman who can speak her word and say what she means. At least she is being truthfull and honest, if it gets you into trouble, so be it, lol! One thing is certain...It is Combie's call on wheather to initate or not. I think she spelled it out good enough.

Exactly!!....Your move Crom!!

i agree that if she was so sweet and innocent and not a slut...she wouldnt have to spell that out! LOL she wants him and wants him to know it..

I would have said "P.S. Why didnt you just take me right then and there on the dance floor!!!!!!

LOLOL

[theoak*]

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You guys are reading too far into this......

If she doesnt give you a raise, well then you shouldnt giver he one either. Works on both ends .

[Stackt]

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Ahhh gotta take advantage ! got milf ?

[Stackt]

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Ahhh gotta take advantage ! got milf ?

she's waiting

[Lily]

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You guys are reading too far into this......

If she doesnt give you a raise, well then you shouldnt giver he one either. Works on both ends .

LOLOL