I need advices... QUICK!

[jazzjackrabbit]

There is a girl I have chatted with since a few month. Noting serious just having fun. She is from America and me in France.
Today I received a mail from her and she is currently in Paris! she doesn't explain me why. She would realy like to see me.
The problem is I don't realy know want she wants. I'd like to see her in real for sure but I'm afraid. I don't know if I told her about my girlfriend.
What should I do????
I could go to Paris with my gf to meet her. But how would THEY react. My gf don't like me speaking to girls on internet. Then the american girl may like to see me alone!
I couldn't go to paris alone because it's far (3/4h of road) and I won't leave my gf alone (she is pregnant btw).
If I tell the american girl I can't go I'd need to tell her I have a gf and continue writing each other then. Or I could tell her and maybe she thought I was single.
I'm confused! She sent me her room number and phone number but I don't know what to do!
please HELP!!!!

[lxorl]

Re: I need advices... QUICK!

just be honest.... no point in getting yourself in trouble....

[Testify]

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Busted! LOL

I guess if you can't swwep it all under the rug, you should be honest with you internet girl - but don't tell your pregnant girlfriend! That will only make things very bad for you.

[T-Man007]

Re: I need advices... QUICK!

just be honest.... no point in getting yourself in trouble....

Agreed!

However, I do have one question. If you have a pregnant g/f and she doesn't like you chatting with girl on the net, they why are you doing it? I'm assuming she's having your baby, right? Then you need to quit messing around with other women, even on the net. IMO

[jazzjackrabbit]

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just be honest.... no point in getting yourself in trouble....

So I should ask the girl if she wants to see me AND my gf. I won't tell my gf what we talk about (everything and sex too), I'll tell I meet her in the forum
If the girl would have liked to have more from me she will be disappointed! I don't want her to be disapointed. I'd prefer to lie and tell her I can't go in Paris if that were that. Then telling her later when she will be ack in the usa that I'm not single. But I realy don't know what she has in her mind!

[jazzjackrabbit]

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Busted! LOL

I guess if you can't swwep it all under the rug, you should be honest with you internet girl - but don't tell your pregnant girlfriend! That will only make things very bad for you.

So you tell me I shouldn't go in Paris, even with my gf?
I have friend I talk to on internet. Even girl friends I don't try to have sex with them I'm just chating. I don't tell promisses to them. In fact I mostly chat with french. My gf is less jealous when I chat in english (more secure in her mind maybe!).
I want to tell my gf there is an american girl friend in paris and ask her if we can go there. I don't want to hide anything to my gf, that's why I don't want to go alone!
If the other girl see me only like a friend that woudl be great. I should have told her earlier than I'm not a man to marry! lol

I haven't been in paris since a while that's why I'd like to go there too. I have a friend (and his newborn baby) to see and I could go shopping in chinese streets (cheap computer parts)...

[space mountain]

Re: I need advices... QUICK!

hey bro if u and ur gf happy and etc stay the hell away fom the other girl!

[jazzjackrabbit]

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Agreed!

However, I do have one question. If you have a pregnant g/f and she doesn't like you chatting with girl on the net, they why are you doing it? I'm assuming she's having your baby, right? Then you need to quit messing around with other women, even on the net. IMO

You're right but I'm not doing anything bad. I'm not telling her she is my fantasy lol We share stories and pics of every day life.

[space mountain]

Re: I need advices... QUICK!

jazz what about u and your gf meeting her?

[SMILEY FACE]

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busted adn she gave u her room number???
i hope u ain't gonna do something stupid like cheating on ur girl...WHAT GOES AROUND WILL COME AROUND...MY BEST ADVICE IS TO BE HONEST AND BLUNT

[T-Man007]

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You're right but I'm not doing anything bad. I'm not telling her she is my fantasy lol We share stories and pics of every day life.

Well, let me ask you this then. Can you tell your g/f everything you have wrote to this other girl?

[SMILEY FACE]

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hey bro if u and ur gf happy and etc stay the hell away fom the other girl!

u read my mind..other woman will bring complicationzzzz to ur existant life...be carefull

[space mountain]

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u read my mind..other woman will bring complicationzzzz to ur existant life...be carefull

exactly!

[jazzjackrabbit]

Re: I need advices... QUICK!

jazz what about u and your gf meeting her?

Yes if I meet her that will be with my gf . I dont want to take any risk with my gf!
What I should do now is tell the girl about my gf and see what happen. I have not much to loose finaly. Then I'll no if I should tell my gf.

[a-bomb83]

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i wouldn't meet up with her. come on man, you have your current gf prego, you should stay with her and help her out.