Weird dreams about my ex GF ~~!!

[mick-G]

Re: Weird dreams about my ex GF ~~!!

How do you feel about them when you have them...really? You have to first be true to your feelings and think it out. "Am i having these dreams because iam still "in love" with this woman, or is it merely my subconscious playing out a fantasy, because she isn't there anymore? In our dreams all is possible, and if there is something in reality that is troubling you, your mind will open up and play out these events in your dreams. There might even be something that day that triggers your subconscious to rethink about her. You say you have some women on the side, but do these women really have any hold on you like this one did? Prob not i suspect. Is there a possibility that your ex feels the same?

[diggi]

Re: Weird dreams about my ex GF ~~!!

With these girls I can just have fun to keep me busy if you know what I mean..but right now I'm not looking to date simply because I'm taking it slow and easy to find the right one..

So far I haven't even started to look for a girl that could replace my ex gf but I'm sure she will come along..

I still have deep feelings for my ex gf but am I in love with her like I was when we broke up NO. I can live without her and be without her but you just get those days "WHAT IF" you know what I'm saying..

Things got much better for me..and even if my ex gf is around and wanted us to reconcile... I wouldn't do it.. because I know it won't work out so I won't waste my time..

Does she think about me and has dreams ?? who knows.. I don't know whats inside her head. We haven't talked in two months at all..no phone calls..email...msn..aim nothing hell I don't even know if she's alive lol.

I'm sure I will see her one day.. but all of these things happend for a good reason and it gets boring reading the same book twice..

How do you feel about them when you have them...really? You have to first be true to your feelings and think it out. "Am i having these dreams because iam still "in love" with this woman, or is it merely my subconscious playing out a fantasy, because she isn't there anymore? In our dreams all is possible, and if there is something in reality that is troubling you, your mind will open up and play out these events in your dreams. There might even be something that day that triggers your subconscious to rethink about her. You say you have some women on the side, but do these women really have any hold on you like this one did? Prob not i suspect. Is there a possibility that your ex feels the same?

[mick-G]

Re: Weird dreams about my ex GF ~~!!

Ok, i understand completely now. I think maybe it is just your subconsious. Maybe you just wonder to yourself about what she is doing or how she is. It is normal. Hell, i have dreams sometimes about a girl i was with 20yrs ago. I don't know why it happens, lol! Maybe it is best that it is permanent. I have been divoriced from my first wife for 26yrs now. Do i wonder what she is doing or looks like now? yes. Sometimes it just comes up in my mind, but later it goes away. I don't think that we forget anyone that has had an impact on our lifes, even when we know its over.