bday ideas ???

[lxorl]

my wifes birthday is tomorrow... i already have a few gifts.

camera case
dvd
book

she knows about the above

I also had a new stone put in a ring of hers, which she does not know about.

I was also going to make her a grab bag of goodies from the $$ store... shit like candles , candy, sented body wash... stuff along those lines.

She also wanted a ice cream cake, which i will probably get but we will get fat eating it alone.. I am also making one of her favorite dinners tomorrow night.

Does anyone have any good gestures, or small gift ideas that dont take much time or money? there has to be some creative folks out there???

[KUCAK]

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Brother, this is going to sound stupid and corny.. But give her what she deserves, and needs.. Give her what i didnt give my X-wife..
Go home and hold her, kiss her and tell her she is your life.. I wouldnt be single right now if i would have given her the most simple gift i could give.. Myself to her.. love her brother.. All else is trivial...

[geesler]

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^^

[mick-G]

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Lmao! Are you married Gees/Kucak?? Give her a gift cert for a massage at a nice spa and a manicure or pedicure afterwards. You know, something she wouldn't do for herself. Also a gift cert at her favorate clothing store so she can get what she wants.

[geesler]

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Nope- I probably would be if I had done what Kucak advised above years ago though lol! Of course some material gifts as well

[KUCAK]

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I was, she left me about a year ago..

Lmao! Are you married Gees/Kucak?? Give her a gift cert for a massage at a nice spa and a manicure or pedicure afterwards. You know, something she wouldn't do for herself. Also a gift cert at her favorate clothing store so she can get what she wants.

[mick-G]

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After your married for awhile you'll see what i mean, lol! Women like to be pampered even if they don't say it.

[KUCAK]

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I was married for 10 years together for 15. i gave her gifts, massages, vacations. presents. name it, ive given it.. But what you arent hearing is that, all the presents in the world dont amount to shit..... If you dont step up as a man, and love the lady you are with. I lost my wife, because i didnt give her the simple things..

[mick-G]

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I understand bro, but im sure Ixorl gives her that and i do too (imean my wife, lol). but after you been married for 10 or more yrs you kind know what your wife likes, lol! And i know lot of women that like to get pampered, but wont do it for themselves.

[KUCAK]

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We dont all know it.. We should, but some take it for granted.
But big daddy you are right about the gift idea.. I think its the route to go.

[mick-G]

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Lol, i know it is easy to take them for granted, especially when sometimes our days get hectic. Well, i guess we live and learn. At least my mistakes were made before i had children, lol!

[KUCAK]

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Sadly mine were after, now they have to deal with my messups..
Damn, sorry brother, we just hijacked your thread..

[lxorl]

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not at all... its fine...

Sadly mine were after, now they have to deal with my messups..
Damn, sorry brother, we just hijacked your thread..

[Hugh_Heifer]

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How about a wonderful gift certificate from ScienSupply

[BIGMOFO]

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After your married for awhile you'll see what i mean, lol! Women like to be pampered even if they don't say it.

you got it bro!!!!!!