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It will be the hardest thing to do dude but just distance yourself from her....as much as you might not wanna hear it it really sounds like she has some issues to deal with herself if she is playing you and the other new guy for a fool. Maybe its just immaturity the way she is doing things especially taking advantage of your feelings and toying around. Say whatever you need to say to her and move on, if you ever do get back with this girl you better really sit down and lay down the law and say what you need and if she cant provide that than bounce but honestly the majority of the time the best predictor of the future is the past. Id say all of us have been in this place with a chick. Im sure there are alot of things that go into it but sometimes you just have to cut your losses and chalk it up as a learning experience....keep yourself busy make some personal accomplishments in your life and you WILL make it and hopefully one day look back and say what was I thinking....good luck bro
Bro sounds like the only reason your gf is going out with this guy is because of the 3 wks of you not calling her! You should have told her how you felt on that day you hung out. If you keep playing it cool your going to loose her. If you want her back you got to be honest with her. Dosen't sound to me like she has any issues. You got to think how a woman would think. If i have it right, you two got into an argument, then you talk on the phone, a few times, then you stop for three wks,...do you expect her to call you??? She prob thought you weren't interested anymore. She is hurt and wants you back bro, and she is trying anything she can. I personally don't agree with the above, yes she is playing this game with you, but only because she prob doesn't think you love or have any feelings for her anymore, because of the cold shoulder treatment. Why in the hell would she be holding your hand, trying to kiss you etc. if she didn't have feelings for you. Open your eyes! Do you want her back or not?
MICK-G youre right.. we broke up but spoke on phone then we didnt talk and i didnt call.. i really dont know if its my mistake..but we`ll see what happens ill keep u posted.
Bro sounds like the only reason your gf is going out with this guy is because of the 3 wks of you not calling her! You should have told her how you felt on that day you hung out. If you keep playing it cool your going to loose her. If you want her back you got to be honest with her. Dosen't sound to me like she has any issues. You got to think how a woman would think. If i have it right, you two got into an argument, then you talk on the phone, a few times, then you stop for three wks,...do you expect her to call you??? She prob thought you weren't interested anymore. She is hurt and wants you back bro, and she is trying anything she can. I personally don't agree with the above, yes she is playing this game with you, but only because she prob doesn't think you love or have any feelings for her anymore, because of the cold shoulder treatment. Why in the hell would she be holding your hand, trying to kiss you etc. if she didn't have feelings for you. Open your eyes! Do you want her back or not?
Wow good call captain perception! I agree with mick. I don't know why I didn't see that. Good call!
Good luck with this situation bro. Hope everything turns out for the better. It's nice of you to have stepped up for your mom. Mothers will suffer the most for their children. She probably never said anything to your dad because she wanted you to grow up with a father. She shouldn't take that shit anymore form your dad! But hopefully something can be worked out.
Bro sounds like the only reason your gf is going out with this guy is because of the 3 wks of you not calling her! You should have told her how you felt on that day you hung out. If you keep playing it cool your going to loose her. If you want her back you got to be honest with her. Dosen't sound to me like she has any issues. You got to think how a woman would think. If i have it right, you two got into an argument, then you talk on the phone, a few times, then you stop for three wks,...do you expect her to call you??? She prob thought you weren't interested anymore. She is hurt and wants you back bro, and she is trying anything she can. I personally don't agree with the above, yes she is playing this game with you, but only because she prob doesn't think you love or have any feelings for her anymore, because of the cold shoulder treatment. Why in the hell would she be holding your hand, trying to kiss you etc. if she didn't have feelings for you. Open your eyes! Do you want her back or not?
mick-g gave some solid advice on this one, i wasnt really thinking in those terms.....but just dont let her play with you.
mickg(who is actually dr phil that is how he bought that ferarri)-
i hope all is o.k. bro...lots of great advice here...reading through this looks to me like mick-g has a good bead on this. listen to him bro...he's a smart dude!
HE WHO MAKES A BEAST OF HIMSELF, GET'S RID OF THE PAIN OF BEING A MAN!!
Like mentioned above - I think you need to cut off ties with the ex. Sounds like she is immature and trying to play games. You don't need to open yourself up to be walked on AGAIN (sending you those pics of her and the new guy was just WRONG). If you continue to let her hurt you, then she will continue doing so.
Your mother is a grown woman - good for you for sticking up for her, but she needs to learn how to defend herself. Encourage her to seek counseling.
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