guys that try to understand women

[TRAM]

Re: guys that try to understand women

IF YOU NEED TO WORK AT IT FOR A MARRIAGE TO LAST IS IT REALLY WORTH IT?

[edvedr]

Re: guys that try to understand women

IF YOU NEED TO WORK AT IT FOR A MARRIAGE TO LAST IS IT REALLY WORTH IT?

no marriage will ever work unless it is worked at. you are 2 people essentially joinin together as one. every decision made by either side will effect the other. so no matter how good 2 people click together they will always have issues that need to get resolved and worked at. and gettin through those issues together is what makes it stronger, u grow together and therefore bond deeper. and this of course only works if both parties agree to work at it. you ask any old couple that has been together forever and they will agree. is it worth? i say yes. i've only been married 3 years this may and i was delt some unexpected issues after we said i do. its been constant work and very draining. but every once in a while we both get on the same page and the feelings that are felt, even if it is for a brief time, make it well worth it. i've asked myself that question alot and i never hesitate to say yes. i know if we can get thru this our marriage will be that much stronger, but i will expect another hurdle to jump over down the road.

[mick-G]

Re: guys that try to understand women

Lol, Tram you sound like the confirmed bachelor, and Ed, well wait about 10yrs, lol! No it does get better, but other issues will take priority. As for women... well im afraid no one will totally figure them out, which makes it very entertaining.

[edvedr]

Re: guys that try to understand women

well you may be right mick, but if i don't try and think that way then i don't think i'm givin it my all