broke up wt my girl

[SMILEY FACE]

finally i made up my mind and broke up wt her, she had me in a cage like a bird, can;t go out wt my boys, no clubs, nothing i mean nonthin, i mean i wouldn't cheat on her coz i reallly like her a lot adn i trsut her too, i told her she can go whenever she wants, as long as she tells me where and so forth.
i felt like i was getting depressed like shit, so i had to break it off, and but was a very exotic woman, nice, well mannered and very rich but money doesnlt mean shit 2 me, i'am poor and i really hate rich peole coz they think they are all that, i'am not pressed over her money and told her from teh beginning either my way or teh highway.

[Got Gear?]

Sucks bro

Sounds like your women didn't trust you.. and it's something that would have persisted throughout your whole relationship.

I'm the same way with my girl.. just lemme know where you are and who your with and it's all good.

Personally, I would have went with the "too bad" approach. Meaning.. "you don't want me to go out? TOO BAD!" then I'd have let her break up with me because of it. Lol...have her try to explain that one to her friends.. "We broke up because he wouldn't stay at home" lol..

[SMILEY FACE]

i really liked her but the prob was that i used to bounce at teh clubs in DC and i knew almost every stripper and she use to get jealous, even though i'am the ONE WHO TOLD her about teh stripper, just wanted to be honest adn upfront that i knew them, and not to hear it from some1 else, but it really hurts me that i had to break wt her coz i liked her a lot, i mean a lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt, but what can i do, i told her when u think that u are ready wt me and make sure that ur head is cleared up, ll take u back.
and the worsr part is that i'am suppose to help her out on sunday morning at 7 am to move in at her new townhouse, dunno if she is going still needs my help or not.

[Got Gear?]

Stripper or not... the problem boils down to trust.

And unless she has a reason not to trust you (For example you've cheated on her once already..) then there's a problem. It's been my experience that it would have been a problem throughout your entire relationship. Even if you moved to a different city..

[SMILEY FACE]

never cheat on my dead body , i told her if i want to sleep around i would rather be single and do my thing but i choose to be wt u and so forth, she is kinda worry if i leave her for some1 else, i know that for fact but i don't care about any1 but HER though.i just texted her and told her about the break up and she never called me back or texted me, i know she is hjurt or something but i tild she can come as long as her head is cleared up from everything, and when she comes back me and her ONLY

[Got Gear?]

Stick to your guns bro, your doing the right thing.

I was once in a similar situation, except that the girl I was dating didn't want me to go anywhere except with her. And then she didn't want to go anywhere I wanted to go (over to a friend's house, a party, etc). So eventually I started leaving her at home... she'd get pissed and say stuff like I didn't love her, etc. But I'd just say "Hey, I told you that you can come."

But with her it was more of a selfish thing. She just only wanted to do the things that interested her.

[jipped genes]

bro find a girl who lets you out my ex was so possesive and i was never happy even though i loved her. my wife lets me go out when i want and does the same i have never been happier even after 13 years of marriage

[mick-G]

Hey Mikey, sound like she is posessive type? I didn't know you knew her that long?? What did she do when you told her about the strippers. Maybe this make her jealous, yes? Maybe she is mad that you had to text her, instead of talking to her in person about it. Anyway, this is just my opinion, but if you really like her, maybe you should try to contact her in person and tell her your problem. Maybe she understand, maybe not, but at least you be the man and know that you did the right thing. If it works out great, if not, there are many fish to choose.

[FUZO]

MORE FISH IN THE SEA BIGMIKE1979.SORRY TO HEAR THIS

[O2BESOHUGE]

keep your chin up bro!! something will come along when you least expect it!

o2