Telling Girlfriend

[jack hust]

i would tell her and sit down and have a long talk informher about aas

[viper10139]

bring her own the board bro...and show her some threads...and let her read for herself to further her knowledge....

[Auriflex]

I've been married over 11yrs, and there are things I refuse to tell my wife. One is my juice. She told me if I ever used, she would leave and never look back - but what scares me is her telling everyone she crosses that her husband was a druggie so she left. It's a choice you will have to make, and if you decide to do it underground, you had better be sure you know what the hell you are doing.

I also refuse to tell her about my midget collection.

[3Vandoo]

my ex gf my dear carot!

I told her on the first date!

Actually we were talking about drugs and the weeds she smoked has a teen, so I reply I never use recre drugs, but sport enchancement one, she reply Oh steroids!
I never officially admitted it

[SpoyledBrat]

Originally posted by ElCid
Lying will just make the problem worse.

Totally agree! If she finds out you lied she will never accept it. If you are honest, she should be open to at least doing her own research and that does not include the media!!

[BossDJ02]

its a tough call bro. i told my gf to be honest and she understood she worries but like viper said bring her over to this board and educate her.

[Gladiator]

Do what you gotta do man. Cj don't you think your a little harsh about the girl thing?

[SpoyledBrat]

Originally posted by CJWolf
*****es never understand, and they're all *****es.

I would say so!

[G*B]

Just tell her. Its soemthing you might have done before her and will after her. If she really loves she'll understand. Its not you doing crack or anything. Show her your taking precautions. Explain to her exactly what a.s. do and what are the effects, not what the media says. ALso show her the new Men's Health issue, it really shows that steroids are more common and not as harmful as the media or ppl portray it to be.

[obscured78]

the girl i am seeing was pissed at first because i kept denying it and lying about being "on." now that i am honest it is all good. sometimes she says some things or questions it 'cause of what she hears in the media but i set her straight. i actually keep all of my gear at her place just in case i get a controlled delivery. they can search my place all they want.

[Lothar]

"that was part of an intricate web of lies" -Homer Simpson

[Lothar]

in other words i wouldn't and haven't ever told her shit.

[BENNYBOOM]

I didnt even bother reading all the other replies,my advice,DONT TELL HER. Its not like doing heroin or crack,all your doing is athletic enhancement.Some things are better left unsaid,this is one.This advice comes through life experience.Be all you can be,live out YOUR dream,your not hurting anybody. PEACE BENNYBOOM

[rado]

Re: Telling Girlfriend

Originally posted by mitsumaster
I am getting ready to start my first cycle fairly soon, there is one problem. I live with my girlfriend and she is against it. She goes by what she hears in public and in the media. I know she would be upset. I don't want to have to hide it in my own house, because if she were to find it she would be mad at me. We have been together for almost 8 years and I don't want to hide anything from her I just don't know how to tell her.

yea after 8 years, I would hope that MAYBE she would understand. My GF was the same, that's why I've said I only have one more cycle, that's it. My GF is the major reason why. You have to respect the women in the house kid, remember that if she's not happy, neither are you.

[iamdwalrus]

I just want to share something. Just before I got married I told my wife-to-be about my AAS experimentation. She told me that she would not marry me unless I stop cycling and quit hanging around message boards like ours. So I made the decision of leaving the internet scene and stopped juicing. I was a mod at FB and another board and didn't even had time to say goodbye to the friends I made on the boards. I quit cold turkey. I got divorced last August 2002, guess what my wife isn't with me but Small, Auriflex, BD, Bathgate, Gearedup,TG etc... my friends from way back are still here.