TweetI think it is mostly lust at first sight. I mean how can you know you love someone just when you see them the first time. I think we lusted for at least the first couple of years,lol. I do think we were in love right away but lust took over then. I also think it is different when you meet in your early 20's rather than maybe someone who meets at 40 or older. expectations and such just seem different as we get older.. I also think it is never to late to rekindle those lustful times again and again. Nice topic Diva