So my dumb ass 18yr niece

[FUZO]

TweetFron my wifes side of the family is pregnant. My wifes sisters daughter got knocked up by a gang banger hispanic no job low life scum bag. First she has been hanging with girls that all have children at 16-17-18 so she thinks its cool and he is only 18 also. She's fuk'd because if she keeps the baby you damn well know her mother will be taking care of this child because her dumb ass cant even take care of her self.Its there own fault. She was raised in a disfunctional family with no rules and swearing all the time at each other,mother to dauhgter and just awful stuff said to each other. The mother would just buy them stuff to make things better. She wasnt a mother she was like a best friend to her daughters both of them and now 1 is pregnant.Ok sure what do you do in a case like this.She cant even help her self but now a baby. her life with no college no job no nothing and will live at home and now live off the state just great.Ok beleifs does a 18yr have the baby or get rid of it. does she give it up to a good home because this baby will not have a good home thats a fact.This is a mtv after school special night mare and this dumb ass 18yr girl thiks everything is just fine.You ask why am I mad because as parents we dont do whats right for our kids while there growing up. there father is a alcholic and wont stop there mother is a enabler. Oh and heres the kicker I dont want my 6yr dauhter to know that er cousin at 18 is pregnant and baby1 and I had a little fight about this becaue baby1 thinks it might be ok if my 6yr daughter knows well I dont want her knowing nothing at that age about having babys when her cousin is a kid anyway and thats what my daughter thinks. that her cousing is just a kid not a adult. I'm sure baby1 will chime in but I hope she see's my point of view that our daughter doesnt have to know anything about this pregnancy. My niece has always been over wieght so its not like my daughter will know she's pregnant anyway because she's been over wieght preety much her entire life. Please others chime in. I ned to kow as a dad if i;m right or wrong but I will not have my daughter asking why is my kid of a cousin having a baby. 18 immature she has a attitude her whole life this gprl has no respect for anyone or anything. she takes takes and takes from her mother

[daved150]

Tweetomg.....every dads worse nightmare!!!!

[BABY1]

TweetI will not even get into this here. As far as my daughter, no she doesn't need to know about this now but she will find out eventually. She also does not need to be given to much info on this because she is only 6, but unfortunately, this does happen in todays world and as she gets older, she will hear it then. Let me also say that I don't even know her boy friend so I can't say anything in regards to him.

[jipped genes]

Tweetif she dosnt give the child up for adoption i fear in many cases they just dont have a chance.

i was adopted and had a great upbringing with people who wanted to be parents and werent forced into it by circumstance and ignorance

[deepsouth]

TweetI feel your pain Bro- I don't have the time to type about my wifes 4 siblings and the crap I'm seeing take place- Young stupid and pregnant not once but twice- parents are alcoholics- and mnot just one but several. My wife has 2 bothers and 2 sisters and they are all screwed up-Grrrrrr. I see your problem x4

[angryoldman]

TweetFuzo, you must ALWAYS try to turn a negative into a positive. It's a top 10 rule in all the self help books.
So, the negative is "My wifes sisters daughter got knocked up by a gang banger hispanic no job low life scum bag."
Now, the positive could be "If I ever need someones azz kicked, I have some gang bangers on my side that are soon to be family. They will take care of my dirty work for me."

[FUZO]

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Fuzo, you must ALWAYS try to turn a negative into a positive. It's a top 10 rule in all the self help books.
So, the negative is "My wifes sisters daughter got knocked up by a gang banger hispanic no job low life scum bag."
Now, the positive could be "If I ever need someones azz kicked, I have some gang bangers on my side that are soon to be family. They will take care of my dirty work for me."

OR IF I NEEDED A CAR STOLEN,LOL I GET IT

[skinnyman]

TweetThats heartwrenching. You nailed it when you said the mother was more like a best friend. That's a load of horse dong....children need role models to look up to, respect and help guide through their lives. I really hope it works out for the baby...somehow/someway

[trip]

Tweetdon't shiled you're daughter from the realitys of the world

it is what it is, what matters is your homelife not someone else's, there is nothing u can do too control what others do

give you're child some props, she always seems to do the right thing and shine in her own life, which is a reflection of you and baby, thus, no reason why that will not continue ad infinitum into the future

[BABY1]

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don't shiled you're daughter from the realitys of the world

it is what it is, what matters is your homelife not someone else's, there is nothing u can do too control what others do

give you're child some props, she always seems to do the right thing and shine in her own life, which is a reflection of you and baby, thus, no reason why that will not continue ad infinitum into the future

Thanks trip! You are right on target here!

[IronpumpedLady]

TweetWell, sorry to hear this Fuzo, but, and thats a Big But, LOL Maybe it will turn her life around. I have seen it happen sometimes a young girl gets pregnant and turns responsible. Lets hope this is the case!


Stay Strong~~!!!
IPL

[FUZO]

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Well, sorry to hear this Fuzo, but, and thats a Big But, LOL Maybe it will turn her life around. I have seen it happen sometimes a young girl gets pregnant and turns responsible. Lets hope this is the case!


Stay Strong~~!!!
IPL

I agree with you 100% and wish that this will happen

[BABY1]

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Well, sorry to hear this Fuzo, but, and thats a Big But, LOL Maybe it will turn her life around. I have seen it happen sometimes a young girl gets pregnant and turns responsible. Lets hope this is the case!


Stay Strong~~!!!
IPL

I hope this is the case also and I pray for a healthy baby!

[TheChosen1]

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Well, sorry to hear this Fuzo, but, and thats a Big But, LOL Maybe it will turn her life around. I have seen it happen sometimes a young girl gets pregnant and turns responsible. Lets hope this is the case!


Stay Strong~~!!!
IPL

I hate to say it but I have to agree with IPL. Ironically a few years ago, I met a young lady (no, not pervertedly) online and learned that she was 15 and pregnant for a 26 year old guy. For some idiotic reason, a girl cannot prosecute a guy for statutory rape until she's 18, which she did. And the guy served some time in jail for it. Now, the girl is 21 with 3 kids (another one at 17 and 20 for her husband at the time) but totally grew up after her 1st pregnancy.

Hopefully, this will open your niece's eyes and she won't be hanging with her gangbanging loser friend.

[Dzone]

Tweetdamn, sorry to hear that. Hopefully it will make your neice grow up real fast. I see real nice girls around here get knocked up by gang bangers all the time. Sex ed in the schools was supposed to help with this stuff but it hasnt.

Sometimes these mothers who think they have to be best friends to their kids is so stupid. I have a friend who is 36 and has a 15 year old son and she smokes pot with him all the time...she thinks its cool to sit around smoking weed with her son. what the fuk message is that to a kid ?