Dating and Kids...

[Gym_Tigress]

TweetWhat do you think about dating while a single parent? Do you think single men take advantage of single mom's for certain needs or vice versa?

[FUZO]

TweetI definitly think both men and women can be taken advantage of big time.

[daved150]

Tweetonly if they want to be taken advantage of...i dont see a prob. with single moms. i guess i'm trying to say the kid/kids wouldnt scare me...but, i know some guys would TRY to take advantage of the mom, its just wether or not the mom wants him too

[Gym_Tigress]

TweetI think men would definately take advantage. I think to some extent because moms have to stay home with their kids, it gives a man time to go out and mess around and act single. Of course, I don't think it's ALL men, but I think some would like to have the best of both worlds like that. I'm sure there might be women like that too, but I would imagine it's more rare.

[daved150]

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I think men would definately take advantage. I think to some extent because moms have to stay home with their kids, it gives a man time to go out and mess around and act single. Of course, I don't think it's ALL men, but I think some would like to have the best of both worlds like that. I'm sure there might be women like that too, but I would imagine it's more rare.

wow...that sucks that, that is your prespective...you've met alot of assholes in your day, huh?
i guess i'm proude to say that not only am i NOT like this...i'd have a seriouse problem if a freind of mine was too act this fukin stupid!! i think that a scrub is a scrub....if he does shyt like that, he probobly had plenty of other charecter flaws! good to know what your dealing with as soon as possible in that case!

[Dzone]

Tweetwhats up with single moms who think it nothing to have 5 or 6 lovers spending the night each week and having the kids wake up to a different guy every morning or once a week or even once a month is just fuking wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!But it goes on all the fuking time. I mean all the fukin time. If I am a parent and the kids are staying with a divorced mom and this is going on, you got to be aware. Same with the guy. If the dad is banging numerous chicks in front of the kids, it needs to fukin stop.
I remember this chick and every time we would have to meet the dad to drop off their daughter, he and i would have a fukin stare down. He sure as hell didnt like me spendin the night there at her house and I sure as hell didnt like him callin her and hittin on her every fukin day. But you know, if the girl breaks up with the guy, she should put the kids first and not be banging every tom dick and harry in town in the bedroom next door. But it happens a lot. No wonder kids grow up with such a model of how the world is.
Hey, I gotta admit I cant say no to having sex witrh the mom in the bedroom even though there is a brownie meeting going on in the living room...haha

[deepsouth]

TweetYES some/most men will probably take advantage of this. I think a female should tell the man upfront she has a child/children and look for his reaction. I also think you shouldn't bring him to her house around the kid/s until they have a couple a dates under their belt. I also think that if he doesn't express a want to do something with you and your kid/s that is a sign and last but not least don't give him sex for a while and see if he hangs around- that will tell you the real interest he has

[JohnSours]

TweetI agree with Deepsouth. Best way to test anyone's true intentions is to make them wait and see how they react.

[6p6]

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whats up with single moms who think it nothing to have 5 or 6 lovers spending the night each week and having the kids wake up to a different guy every morning or once a week or even once a month is just fuking wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!But it goes on all the fuking time. I mean all the fukin time. If I am a parent and the kids are staying with a divorced mom and this is going on, you got to be aware. Same with the guy. If the dad is banging numerous chicks in front of the kids, it needs to fukin stop.
I remember this chick and every time we would have to meet the dad to drop off their daughter, he and i would have a fukin stare down. He sure as hell didnt like me spendin the night there at her house and I sure as hell didnt like him callin her and hittin on her every fukin day. But you know, if the girl breaks up with the guy, she should put the kids first and not be banging every tom dick and harry in town in the bedroom next door. But it happens a lot. No wonder kids grow up with such a model of how the world is.
Hey, I gotta admit I cant say no to having sex witrh the mom in the bedroom even though there is a brownie meeting going on in the living room...haha

I agree!

[Gym_Tigress]

TweetI agree with you too!! I wondered what others thought. I know as a single mom I am skeptical and very protective of my daughter, especially after what COULD happen. I think the second sentence out of my mouth when a guy talks to me is, "I have a 6 year old" lol. Then I USUALLY turn them down a couple times to see how they react to the restrictions my schedule has. After that, it's phase 2 lol. Being single is hard!!! =)

[Dzone]

Tweet^ good strategy GT. No doubt. If some dude isn't cool with you having a daughter, Its time to punt his a$$

Oh, I was kiddin about bangin the mom in the other room when a brownie meeting is goin on. I wouldnt do that unless she attacked me or threatened me if I didnt...LOL