when does flirting go to far...

[Merc]

TweetOk so we all flirt with the opposite sex but when does it go to far in your eyes if you have someone in your life? Is it calling them on the cell phone, text messaging, meeting for lunch...when does it go over the line?

I thought this would be an interesting topic

[BigDawg]

Tweetmeeting them, calling them, that is not flirting, that is trying to hook up.

[Testify]

TweetWhen you have to ask if she's on the pill, or if you need to wear something . . . ?

[daved150]

Tweetwhen you ask her what she'd like for breakfast...you may have went too far.
my wife would say, when i looked at her

[kite]

TweetWhen you're married, pretty much anything that would make your spouse uncomfortable is going too far. Otherwise, it crosses over from flirting to wantin to hook up as soon as there is intent to do so.

[horsepwr]

TweetI don't care for that flirtin bullshyt. We might run across people that might be someone that we would hook up with if we weren't taken, but that's all the more reason to keep your composure and not play around with that blurry line between flirting and pushing it too far.

[Weaksauce]

Tweetmy last gf was a stupid slut and flirted all the time behind my back... finally left me for another dude...

i never flirt with girls if im with one, i wouldn't do something to my girl that i don't want being done to me.

[FUZO]

TweetALL THE ABOVE. KEEP THEM IN THE HOUSE TO COOK YOUR FOOD FEED YOUR CHILDEREN CLEAN YOUR CLOTHES HAVE DINNER READY AND HAVE SEX BEFORE BED.

[a-bomb83]

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i never flirt with girls if im with one, i wouldn't do something to my girl that i don't want being done to me.

EXACTLY!

[CeasarIM]

TweetYou guys make a good point.I sometimes might go overboard even though I'm married ,but I dont say things because I want to hook up or whatever.I just say stupid stuff like whats up sexy , hottie or you look great ,but majority of the time is to a friend thats a girl that might be overweight or insecure about her appearance,just to get a smile out of her.Its like being in the gym and saying hey bro you look good or youre getting big,its not like I'm saying that hey dude I want to get with you,its only a complement.Its always nice to hear one.On the other hand when your significant other is getting calls stupid inuendos, if youre relationship is solid she'll take care of it herself ,but if not then it was never ment to be ,if she responds in an submissive way then youre relationship is not at that level to get serious yet.I had girls that were getting calls sometimes even at night,but they must not have been too serious about me .I'm not with them now,its a good thing though.On the other hand I was in relationships where my girls would cut the person down in their tracks,tell their ex-boyfriend "hey I'm in a relationship now ,you had your chance before",than hang up the phone.Thats as simple as that.If the relationship is solid enough and youre secure in your self ,than youre significant other knows what she has.In some situations it depends what the motives are.I think you guys made good solid points,and sometimes its good to look at many angles of the situations.But who knows my percption of things might be way off?

[horsepwr]

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I don't care for that flirtin bullshyt. We might run across people that might be someone that we would hook up with if we weren't taken, but that's all the more reason to keep your composure and not play around with that blurry line between flirting and pushing it too far.

By "we" I mean anyone. Not "we" as in my wife and I.

[trip]

Tweeti'm with bigdawg

just never be alone with em, that's when 1 leads to another

[SMILEY FACE]

Tweetdepends on the wifey..every women is different..My ex would not let me look, text, call or anything, basically cut all females out..
and my other ex used to allow short phone calls wt my females friends, hi and bye and text here and there.
but for me i was interested and IN LOVE wt my girl, i would NOT call, text or go to lunch wt other women..but if i do see em out, i would say hi.
how would u feel if ur women was texting, calling, going out on lunches wt other men??????

[Merc]

Tweetyou guys are alot better then me I am a natural flirt always have been. I think it goes to far when you feel the need to hide it from your partner. I could really care less if my women goes out to lunch with another guy, calls someone or even text someone. I used to be really jelous when it came to stuff like that but hell it was to stressful on me, so I stopped worring about it. if she does something stupid she is the one that has to live with it and risks ruining what she has.

[SMILEY FACE]

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I could really care less if my women goes out to lunch with another guy, calls someone or even text someone. I used to be really jelous when it came to stuff like that but hell it was to stressful on me, so I stopped worring about it.

im not against u but ONE DAY u will taste your own medicine if u are really in love with your girl.
Yes u are right, u should not be jealous if u trust her, but deep in your heart, it will bug the heck out of u.
all what i know if im wt one, im hers and that is it..i would not look, text, call, go out because i dont want it to be done to me.