what would you do

[alluprbdy]

TweetK heres my situation my girl is in college and she started talking to this kid whos helping her in A&P, and I warned her shes playin with fire but she swears up and down hes not interested in anything hes got a GF anyway. So get this what a shock two weeks later this kid tells her shes perect for him n such there personalitys match and she says not interested n reminds him shes got a BF of 2yrs, which he knew allready btw. So he then calls her that night and asks when theyre hanging out she told him again. Today went by and she said he didnt say a word to her all day. Now im tryn to grow up a little bit but its a kinda hard my instinct is go to the classroom as class ends n drop him then put a crowbar threw his windshield. I know that its time to grow up n im too old to do stuff like that. So know Im thinking call him explain myself n if he calls again then its on. Just tryin to get some input from some mature ppl. Btw just was told an hr ago, and just got his #

[kite]

TweetI wouldn't call him, phone calls just arent effective enough and people can easily put on the tough guy act on a phone. I'd talk to him in person. I wouldn't do anything physical, just let him know what's up.

[O2BESOHUGE]

TweetI AGREE WITH KITE...LET HIM SEE YOU. TELL HIM WHATS UP AND TO BACK OFF

O2

[alluprbdy]

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I wouldn't call him, phone calls just arent effective enough and people can easily put on the tough guy act on a phone. I'd talk to him in person. I wouldn't do anything physical, just let him know what's up.

ya ur right everyones tough on the phone then they dont wanna meet up ever.

[supernova1021]

TweetIf it continues I would definitely have a little chat with him. I mean, sometimes you can't blame a guy for trying...ONCE. But once his is told the situation by her and it continues, go have a sit down with him.

If that does not work, toss him a good beatin'. Just don't get caught..lol

[brody13]

TweetOo Oo Oo, pick me I've had this happen many times and have tried numerous ways. Here's the best one.

Ok, confront him about it and tell him to stop. If the problem continues threaten to kick his ass in person, and he will most likely back down and drop it. Don't do anything to his car. If there is one thing I want to get across to people in this world it is that taking it to the car damaging level is uncalled for. This should work, especially if you are bigger than him. Also, weather you want to believe it or not, it is probably partly your girls fault. Had this same thing happen and my girl always told me that she was trying to get him to stop, but I found out other wises just by being observant and smart about it. Anyways, good luck!

[6p6]

Tweetdo it in person avoid the vandalism

[BigDawg]

Tweetbrody is on the money about partly being ur girl's fault. chicks have to know that guys are dawgs and no guy ever is content being just buddies with a chick, especially if she's hot. but now that she has let him know she's not interested it's time to let him know point blank that he needs to make himself scarce. if her college is PC as most are have her swear out a restraining order on him saying he is stalking her, they'll make sure he stays in line or his academic career there is in jeapordy. if that fails to do the trick plain and simple go medieval on his little ass and jack him up.

[pigmeat]

Tweetgirls like the attention and egg it on...get rid of her, and get you a really ugly one that nobody else would want

[Testify]

TweetYou should be able to trust your GF. Talk to her again first. If he continues, then you talk to him. If that doesn't work you get a restraining order and then maybe threaten his health. I think violence is the last resort, and vandalism is pointless. You should be able to solve this verbally. If you cannot trust the GF though, your relationship needs work.

[alluprbdy]

Tweetya all good advice let me make this clear its not a trust issue with the gf I have no thought of her cheating the whole thing was about this d-bag who knew she had a bf tryn to get some 2x. Thats what pissed me off, and I talked to the girl and since she has 2 weeks left in class she doesnt want me to beat up the kid bc shed be in a n awkward posistion. She wants me to make an apperance in class to let him see me and realize im not some skinny punk rock kid or something. So will see how everything goes, and BTW no ugly *****es.

[daved150]

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girls like the attention and egg it on...get rid of her, and get you a really ugly one that nobody else would want

lmao!! we gotta be related somehow!! you sound like my dad!.
i agree with kite. DONT get in a fight with the guy. just having the balls to confront him in person, let him know he's pissing you off, and tell him you dont want it to get nasty, should do the trick. also, smile alot...ALOT. that'll fuk him up a little

[pigmeat]

Tweetmy wife had some creep at her work trying to hustle her every day.bad! One day, i thought i would make an appearance at her work...to check things out....well, the guy took one look at me and damn near **** himself...he wont even look at my wife anymore...i didnt have to say a word to him,lol. Nothing scares a little ***** like a big Ugly biker,lol

[T-Man007]

TweetHere's my two cents...

I agree with Kite, everyone is a tough guy on the phone. If you walk up to that dude and say 'hey, I need to talk to you.' Then, tell him just like this 'you look like a smart guy, are you smart?' Wait for response and say 'Hopefully you can help me out with something. See, I'm dating this girl named (whatever you girls name it) and I hear there is this little dip**** who's got the nerve to come on to her even though he knows she has a B/F. Do you think I should just beat his ass to a pulp or should I give a verbal warning to stay the fuk away?' If you look him dead in the eye when you say it, he will probably piss his pants and take the verbal warning. LOL

[T-Man007]

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my wife had some creep at her work trying to hustle her every day.bad! One day, i thought i would make an appearance at her work...to check things out....well, the guy took one look at me and damn near **** himself...he wont even look at my wife anymore...i didnt have to say a word to him,lol. Nothing scares a little ***** like a big Ugly biker,lol

lmao!