Why is it so dang hard to meet people?
I mean I don't get it at all, it's not exactly rocket science and it's pretty basic. Yet year after year I continuously have problems developping friendships. And even forming romantic connections with women.
And it's not like I don't try, I've even considering using online sites like Lavalife and Tango Personels. But as of yet I haven't developed the courage to register. Mainly because being unemployed and not having my own place, I don't (IMPO) have a lot to bring to the table at the moment. And I'll NEVER forget the words someone said to me. This person's not a member here, but since the board's open to public w/o logging in. I'd rather not risk that said person happens to find this board or this thread
And I can honestly say that I'm not socially inept. Although admittedly cute women do make me a little nervous. But if I'm made to feel comfortable I'm a decent conversationalist. And I'm not an alpha-male but I can honestly say that while I'm not 100% self confident that I'm not "Charlie Brown" wishy washy either
But dang if it isn't hard for me. And some people make it seem so easy, with all the MILF stories/1-nighter stories I overhear people telling. And I am human and everybody deserves to have some friends and a gf.
Wow felt good to write it out like that