why in the hell

[space mountain]

Tweeta few of u know that my sis is going thru some big stuff with her hushband.. he been cheating on her etc treats her like shit etc..ok here is my question..... why in the hell do people stay with people when they are treated like shit on a reg basis????

she been thru so much and its like she comes back for more from this guy wtf?

[Slightly Enhanced]

Tweetmy guess is a lack of emotional competency, self respect, and low self esteem

could be for a lot of reasons, I bet if you did a search on google you could find the main reasons why and from there you may be able to convince her to leave him.........

[jipped genes]

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my guess is a lack of emotional competency, self respect, and low self esteem

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bingo, many people especially women will stay in an abusive relationship because of those reasons (abusive can be physical or mental)

my ex GF left me to go back to her ex who she admitted beat her. i treated her like a goddess.


some people are happiest when they feel sorry for themselves. we all know folks like that.

i wish your sister well my friend. now go "straighten" his attitude out.

[space mountain]

Tweeti want to bro so bad ! trust me ! but she is the one that puts up with it !

[jazzjackrabbit]

TweetMany women are the same as your sister. I don't know what to do.
Low self esteem is a reason maybe but if the guy is the father of her kids that will be even more difficult to leave him.

[supasaiyan99]

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bingo, many people especially women will stay in an abusive relationship because of those reasons (abusive can be physical or mental)

my ex GF left me to go back to her ex who she admitted beat her. i treated her like a goddess.


some people are happiest when they feel sorry for themselves. we all know folks like that.

i wish your sister well my friend. now go "straighten" his attitude out.

I read an psychology article before stating that women love dominant men. If you treat them like a goddess it shows a lack of "machoism." Don't know how true it is but my ex-left me as well for a dirt bag. My new girlfriend loves being like a queen though. So it just depends.

Space, I hope your sister gets out before something tragic happens.

[space mountain]

Tweetthanks bro ! she done got in some trouble with las.. assault with deadly weapon but after she done that she went right back to him

[FUZO]

TweetTHATS THE 8TH WONDER OF THE WORLD

[space mountain]

Tweetlol @ fuzo

[T-Man007]

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i want to bro so bad ! trust me ! but she is the one that puts up with it !

Ok, at first I thought you mentioned something about physical abuse. But its not, right? People who suffer from emotional weakness will stick it out for different reasons. Some think they can change the person, not going to happen. Some think bad attention is better than no attention. Some think they can't get any better. It's sad, but a fact of life. I would spend some time with the guy and tell him 'look, you are insulting my sister and my family with your actions. Next time you jurt her, I'm going to hurt you.' I'm not kidding. That's your sister and family is family. Regardless of how you feel, you have to defend family. IMO

[mtnmedic]

TweetI've had the same problem,.. you treat'em the way they want to be treated then they dump ya for some drunk or tweek who could care less about'em ? Go figure...

[Lily]

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a few of u know that my sis is going thru some big stuff with her hushband.. he been cheating on her etc treats her like shit etc..ok here is my question..... why in the hell do people stay with people when they are treated like shit on a reg basis????

she been thru so much and its like she comes back for more from this guy wtf?

I'm guessing the uncertainty that leaving him would bring?? Afraid of being alone? Financial reasons? Maybe she just plain loves him? Love is pretty powerful. You do not specify what you meant by he treats her like sh*t? Is it just the cheating?? Alot of people choose to overlook that to have the security of family and if they have been together for so long then they know each other like no other...it's hard to start over. I'm not saying any of this is right or wrong...just is. If he really talks down to her and is just an @ss, then maybe she is just insecure and needs reassurance that she can live without him.

You are her brother..why not sit her down and talk to her? Do not yell or be opinionated..do not judge her!....just ask her why she really stays and let her know you are there for her....that may make all the difference.

[Skarhead]

Tweetwomen are weird like that

[Aphrodite]

TweetSpeaking from personal experience......I was afraid for mine and my daughters life.

[space mountain]

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I'm guessing the uncertainty that leaving him would bring?? Afraid of being alone? Financial reasons? Maybe she just plain loves him? Love is pretty powerful. You do not specify what you meant by he treats her like sh*t? Is it just the cheating?? Alot of people choose to overlook that to have the security of family and if they have been together for so long then they know each other like no other...it's hard to start over. I'm not saying any of this is right or wrong...just is. If he really talks down to her and is just an @ss, then maybe she is just insecure and needs reassurance that she can live without him.

You are her brother..why not sit her down and talk to her? Do not yell or be opinionated..do not judge her!....just ask her why she really stays and let her know you are there for her....that may make all the difference.

lily he cheats on her with thisd gal..he goes one nite at my sis then couple days later back with other woman then back to my sis. he calls her names etc