Tweetask her what she wants to do! ask her what if it was you, would she want you to go? i would not tell her no, but that i wish she would not but up to her!
Tweetnow my g/f's like best guy friend called her the other day and asked her if she would go to his formual with him he don't have a g/f and he wants to have someone that will have a good time with now they have never hooked up and she was asking me if i would get mad, now i told her i thought that him asking was disrespectful to me, she said she agreeded and that she would tell him that she couldn't go if i didn't want her too. now i trust her and he knows i will fucking kill him if he touched her. now should i tell her not to go or should i tell her that it will be ok but it kinda bothers me!!! i don't want to be a controling b/f which i am not but i kinda feel like i am being a asshole if i say no!!
Tweetask her what she wants to do! ask her what if it was you, would she want you to go? i would not tell her no, but that i wish she would not but up to her!
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Tweeti told her that i knew she would get mad as hell if it was me! so i would never even ask her that she feels bad and is gonna probally not go but i don't want her to be mad and be like you don't trust me
Tweeti would say no, but tell her what you just told us, you respect her and trust her but it drive you nuts on the inside.
Tweetwell, you have many reasons to NOT want her to go - for instance, your ex was kind of shady about that concert she wanted to go to without you....
Anyways, I have two opinions.
1st - if she wouldn't want you doing the same in the opposite situation, then she should not go.
2nd - one of my best guy friends was in GA last summer at the beach and invited me down to visit. I asked my guy to go with me, but he declined, so I went by myself. He trusted me and that meant more than anything! I hadn't seen my friend in almost 4 years!
I know you trust your sweetie, so if she ADMITS that she would be ok with you doing the same - then I say let her go. If you give her a little space and she proves trustworthy, I think your relationship will be even stronger.
TweetLet her go, just trust her, it will help your relationship, I am serious.
TweetPHUCK NO! Tell that piece of shit to get off his lazy ass and get his own damn woman that isn't spoken for...phucker deserves to get his face kicked in for even suggesting that crap! Get's me fired up just thinking about it...
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TweetOriginally Posted by Sven
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TweetDoes this guy know about you Byron?? If he does, then he doesn't have respect for you, do you really think that he gives a damn about any plays he may make on your gf? And what about after the formal, what they going to do then, shake hands and say goodnite, lol! I would first off find out how she feels. Question for you: Do you trust this girl your going out with?? Really trust her? If the answer is yes, then let her go. It too would depend on what this guy is like. I know many guys that can go out with a girl just for fun or hangout, but then there are the kinds that can't go out with the opposite sex without trying something. Main thing here is what this guy's personality is like, and also how you really feel gut instincts are about your gf. It takes two to tango. If he makes a play for her she would have to reciprocate for anything to happen.
Tweethe has met me once! YESSSSSSSSSSS i do trust her more than i have ever trusted a girl! i told that he can pick her up from my house and she can bring her to where i am when they are finsihed if i and she decides she will go! kinda like a dad thing you know
Tweeto he is alot smaller than me and i will crush his skull wit ha rock!
Tweeti agree wt seven, but ask her how would she feel it it was the opposite and a girl asked u!!!!!!! but IMO, i'am not controlling, i kinda feel jealous but i wouldn't show it and it's always GOOD TO PUT HER TO THE TEST...BRO....Originally Posted by Sven
P.S I WOULDN'T LIKE IT BUT IF I TRUST MY GIRL , I SAY GO, BUT DAMN I WOULD BE JEALOUS
TweetI was trying to put it in a nice way, I could not stand for my wife to go to a big thing like a formal unless the person was a close friend to both of us. Other wise NO. My wife know I trust her but guys and girls think differently especially when the women is hot. has she ever gone to hang out just with this guy before?Originally Posted by Iron_Gook
Tweetactually yes the first night she came and hung out with me she was at a party with him and they talked in a bedroom forl ike an hour about there ex's and he never tried anyhtingOriginally Posted by Merc
TweetIts up to you in the end but i would not feel comfortable with it jsut let her decide and go with the flow