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      I would wish that i could trust people.

      But it never works out that way.

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      Awwwww, whats wrong?
      "The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what we want most for what we want at the moment."

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      Could be nothing, could be a lot. There's just a person that i've been through a lot with over the past 4 1/2 years and now once again they're giving me reasons to not trust them.

      It could just be my paranoia, but i have a great sense of being able to tell when someone is being shady, and here it goes again.

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      That's rough......I know you probably DONT want to hear this but if your "gut instinct" is making you feel uneasy, it's probably not just "paranoia"

      Stuff like this makes me upset........because you're right. It seems next to impossible to find someone that you can just trust completely without them screwing around.

      Honesty is so important yet so rare.
      "The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what we want most for what we want at the moment."

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      It's not completely exclusive between us, because there are extraneous circumstances, but it just makes me have zero excitement about holidays and plans which have been made when shit happens like this.

      Although, I think i'll just have a chat tomorrow and explain if anything is going on, i need to know about it, and that'll be fine. But if I find out after the fact later down the road, someone will regret it greatly.

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      Yah, hopefully a chat will clear things up for you guys.

      Damn, 4 1/2 years is a lonnnnnnng time!
      "The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what we want most for what we want at the moment."

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      it's been off and on pretty much, distance does that.

      and of course 3 years ago when the same shadiness happened and she had another guy, we took a little break.

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      ((HUGSS))) CJ Hope it gets better for ya.
      "The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what we want most for what we want at the moment."

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      now for a night of fitful sleep.

      now i have a shitty christmas for now, and a wrecked car as of yesterday. yay me.

      good night.

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      I'll never know for sure if I was there or not...but I'm getting divorced and am a much happier person now. If you can't 100% for sure without a doubt trust the person you're with then I don't think it's worth being with them. That's just me though. It's safer for me that way too because I'm afraid of what I'd do if I actually found out my wife had cheated on me. I wish you luck though bro, but if it turns out to be your gut feeling then I hope you don't continue in a relationship like that. Have a merry Christmas anyway and try to think happy thoughts.

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      Originally posted by jsjs24
      I'll never know for sure if I was there or not...but I'm getting divorced and am a much happier person now. If you can't 100% for sure without a doubt trust the person you're with then I don't think it's worth being with them.
      .........so simple-sounding and so true.
      "The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what we want most for what we want at the moment."

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      Originally posted by T82
      .........so simple-sounding and so true.
      Life isn't much fun if you're worried all the time about your significant other. It took some time for me to get over being apart from my wife but 5 months later and I'm doing pretty good. It sucks being alone again but at least I have these boards to keep me busy and work and the gym.

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      that sucks CJ....I can tell you that there is no point being in a relationship that doesn't consist of 100% trust. I know that sick feeling in your stomach...sucks bro, I hope it goes better today.
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      yo cj it sucks but gotta go with ur gut man hope shit works out for u bro
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