i'm curious

[edvedr]

Tweeti've read alot of your views on gay marriage. and i'm curious. how do you feel one becomes gay? do you guys think its a conscious decision or do you think they were born that way. i don't want to start any debates. i'm just trying to understand the point of view givin by people with the opposite points of view as me. lol hope that made sense. so lets here it

[kite]

TweetI don't believe that true homosexuals are such by choice. Those that are "bi" I feel are by choice. I think, and there is overwhelming evidence, are born with that disposition. However, just because someone has a predispostion to something doesnt' mean that they have to act on it.

[edvedr]

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I don't believe that true homosexuals are such by choice. Those that are "bi" I feel are by choice. I think, and there is overwhelming evidence, are born with that disposition. However, just because someone has a predispostion to something doesnt' mean that they have to act on it.

so your position is that a gay person should deny themselves of sexual pleasure for life. am i correct?

[solidground]

Tweeti believe theyre born with it, there is proof of that..bisexuals i think have a choice though.

[Ryker77]

TweetIts a choice.

Gay people choose to ram guys in the but.
Child molesters choose to molest kids
Rapist choose to rape.

[kite]

Tweetso your position is that a gay person should deny themselves of sexual pleasure for life. am i correct?


Yes. Is this fair? No, but neither is being born with any other affliction.

[edvedr]

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so your position is that a gay person should deny themselves of sexual pleasure for life. am i correct?


Yes. Is this fair? No, but neither is being born with any other affliction.

point taken

[CherryBomb]

TweetI believe they are born that way, i used to work in a daycare and we had this 2 year old acting as a "stereotypical homosexual" talking very feminine dressing up wanting to do what the girls did instead of playing with the typical boy things. Turns out its been many years and I was right he is, thats when I truly believed theyre born like that, his father was a typical Macho man and mother was normal acting so it wasnt as if he saw something at home. Bisexuals on the other hand, just my opininon, are living a lifestyle that they are more sexually open, and like the excitement of different things when they so choose. Im just giving my opinion thats all.

[DangerousGround]

TweetI only like lesbians I love soft women not hairy man...not homophobic but just can't see a man in a sexual way at all!
woman are beautiful creatures!!!!
god I love *****!

[mick-G]

TweetLol, glad you like ***** DG! I was scared there for a moment, lol! Anyway, i believe that the majority that are true homosexuals are born that way. Iam not sure, but i believe there is evidence to support this, something about a difference in size of the hemisphere that controls the sexual senses is different. With bisexuals, i don't think that it developes until later after sexual maturity. I think it is a personality that can, and likes to be a man and enjoys women, but other times a personality takes over that "man" personality and wants to be more of a woman. It is a kind of switching from agressive, dominant trait behavior and sexuality, to a passive, submissive feminine sex behavior. In the bisexual, i think the person has more control over his or her sexuality, as they have another gender they can succumb to, so it is more of a choice.

[T-Man007]

TweetThey are not born that way, it's a product of their childhood. There is one, and only one, theory that states that some gays become that way as a result of lack of proper hormone release during puberty. You know, when you go from girls are gross to girls are wow. Everyone of us has this hormone and it releases during puberty. However, this theory went south when over 10,000 gay individuals signed up to be tested for hormone levels. An astounding 90% proved to be of normal functioning hormone levels. Thus, putting the "they were born with it" theory to bed. This was a huge thing I can't believe you guys never heard of it. Well, I think it tool place at Emory University in Atlanta so maybe it was just local news. That means only 10% of them could blame it on possible hormone difficiencies. There are hundreds of ducumented testimonials of how some people became gay. Most are about early childhood molestation, lack of one parent or another and other socially influenced situations. You take a guy rasied by his mother and 3 sisters with no male figure in his life and you have a good cadidate for homosexuality. Why not, where is he going to learn to be a man? Not from his juvenile buddies. It takes a man to teach a man. I'm from Atlanta and I've meet 100's of gay people during my life. And almost everyone had a sad story as to why (and yes I actually asked). There were a few that sad "I just quit feeling attractive to men/women" but most had a sad story. I don't buy the "I was born this way" crap for the majority. Maybe a few but not the masses. Besides, I've meet guys who calim to be gay and a few years later they are married to a women (a real women). WTF? If they were born that way they wouldn't switch. Also, I've known guys who were married with kids in College who all of a sudden tell their wives they think they are gay. You don't marry a women and have kids if you are gay your whole life. And you would have to be gay your whole life if you are born with it.

[angryoldman]

TweetDo a google or Yahoo search for "Simon LeVay"
He has written some excellent medical and psychological studies on the subject

[edvedr]

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Do a google or Yahoo search for "Simon LeVay"
He has written some excellent medical and psychological studies on the subject

i've read a summary ao his research before. and he is mentioned in just about every article on the subject

[Ryker77]

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so your position is that a gay person should deny themselves of sexual pleasure for life. am i correct?


Yes. Is this fair? No, but neither is being born with any other affliction.

inter-change gay with rape or child molester then ask yourself that same question.

[edvedr]

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inter-change gay with rape or child molester then ask yourself that same question.

i'm slow today bro. i'm not gettin your point