TweetWay to go on being honest!!
Bring her to FG~the ladies here are awesome, she will learn a ton. From people that know the truth.
TweetThis past week i found myself a beautifull new girlfriend and since this is my 1st official cycle i just had to tell her rather than hide it. So the purpose of this thread is how many of you have been faced with telling a girl that you juice and do it by way of intramuscular injections?? She took it better than i thought. After the initial shock it wasnt so bad, i had to explain how it all works and used metafore's such as people (family) who smoke cigaretts and drink alcohol. Smoking causes cancer, drinking causes liver failure, and a.s. causes muscle gains when used properly! So she was just concerned and didnt know much about it and i think all is well. I want to hear some of you bros who have had similar situations in this manner. I'll be showing her this thread so BE NICE!!!!!
BIG-G
TweetWay to go on being honest!!
Bring her to FG~the ladies here are awesome, she will learn a ton. From people that know the truth.
TweetI've hidden my usage from my wife. She's told me repeatedly that she would leave if she caught me using. So she doesn't catch me.
It's nice to be able to share something like that with your SO. Good luck to the both of you, it looks like you're starting off on the right foot. As opposed to the left.
TweetI have not done a cycle as of yet, but I find it always best to be upfront with people you care about. Good choice!
So be sure that you are makin the best of what that you have
the truth is all within yourself
TweetOriginally posted by Auriflex
I've hidden my usage from my wife. She's told me repeatedly that she would leave if she caught me using. So she doesn't catch me.
Is this because she has had a bad experience with a user? Or because she hasn't done any research and lets the media do it for her?
TweetMedia and her own strong opinions. Initially I tried talking with her, but that didn't work out too well. I let sleeping dogs lie now. I would love to be able to share my lifestyle with her, but she isn't interested too much. Whatever.Originally posted by BouncersBabe
Is this because she has had a bad experience with a user? Or because she hasn't done any research and lets the media do it for her?
TweetOriginally posted by Auriflex
Media and her own strong opinions. Initially I tried talking with her, but that didn't work out too well. I let sleeping dogs lie now. I would love to be able to share my lifestyle with her, but she isn't interested too much. Whatever.
I understand your point. It is kinda sad tho. It sucks to have to hide things from the ones you love huh? I don't think it's fair to judge until you have at least done your own fair amount of research. Oh well~just my opinion.
TweetAnd it's so weird, because my girlfriend is in total support of my choice. Goes to show, that you cannot understand a woman!Originally posted by BouncersBabe
I understand your point. It is kinda sad tho. It sucks to have to hide things from the ones you love huh? I don't think it's fair to judge until you have at least done your own fair amount of research. Oh well~just my opinion.
TweetI think I'm lost!! Your wife isn't, but your girlfriend is?? LOLOriginally posted by Auriflex
And it's so weird, because my girlfriend is in total support of my choice. Goes to show, that you cannot understand a woman!
TweetI believe that if your lady friend is a 'good one', then you should be able to tell her and it shows your honesty and promotes a stronger relationship. I plan on coaching her thru my whole cycle so that she does not worry. CAN YOU BELIEVE HER ONLY CONCERN WAS IF IT WAS HARMFUL TO ME !! That told me she'e a keeper!! She doesnt have a computer at home but ill get her to register and roam the board and ask some questions so that she see's my world a bit clearer.
Thanx For The Support Bro's !!!
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TweetOriginally posted by BouncersBabe
I think I'm lost!! Your wife isn't, but your girlfriend is?? LOL
Right. It's easy to understand once you have all the facts. LOL
TweetI just hide it ... makes it much easier for them to handle ...
i don't expect them to understand, and it's something i do for myself, so whatever ...
TweetOriginally posted by Auriflex
Right. It's easy to understand once you have all the facts. LOL
Understood!
TweetBig G -- I am glad she understood. I asked my then boyfriend (now my husband) many many times ...and he always denied. Unfortutnately, he had a terrible medical mishap becuase of gear and truth came out that way.
It is best to be honest --as long as you think this chick is around for a long time -- no point in sharing something like this in a transient relationship......
At the time, I was not learned about gear...and while I was against it (not knowing any better), I supported his decision and his goals and tried to educate myself as much as I could in order to help him during his small crisis. In the interim, I became very knowledgeable which 2.5 years later, brought me to my own use.
I sincerely feel badly for those men who need to hide it from their wives -- it is a damn shame that one cannot be completely honest with one's spouse - I would go so far as to say, it annoys me really.
Glad it worked out for you though.
TweetYou shouldn't be posting in the same thread as I do NG....people will talk.
Are you done with my Twister game yet?