a leadership primer (general ret. colin powell)
LESSON 1
"Being responsible sometimes means pissing people off."
Good leadership involves responsibility to the welfare of the group, wich means that some people will get angry at your actions and decisions. It's inevitable, if your'e honorable. Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity:you'll avoid tough decisionds, you'll avoid confronting the people who need to beconfronted, and you'll avoid offering differential rewards based on differential performance because some people might get upset.
Ironically , by procrastinating on the different choices, by trying no to get anyone mad, and by treating everyone equally"nicely" regardless of thier contributions , you'll simply ensure that the only people you'll wind up angering are the most creative
and productive in the organization.