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I was working in the yard, Wanted to make a ham and cheese sandwich I was out. I slipped a shirt onto my sweaty body and off to the market.
This very attractive woman (I mean gorgeous) smiles at me. She is fit and most likely in her 40s and she is smiling at this tall big guy in his 60s with sweats and a dirty white sweaty shirt. I did not do anything but smile back.
How can you tell if a girl is interested or not.
you cant. you just have to strike up a conversation to feel it out. that's my best guess because some ladies arent nice and it's not creepy for them to smile at you. you do it and you are creepy haha
Guns is right! Smiles are nice but that sometimes is all that it is...a kind gesture.
You guys are right. But... if I did want to start a conversation how would I do it
Wish I could help but I have been out of the game 10 years and dating at 41 is rough compared to when I was in 20s lol....I'm not having the best luck with it so my advice wouldn't be helpful/-:
Start with "Hi" and then read her body language. Usually a girl has decided if she likes before you even notice her.Quote:
Originally Posted by dirtwarrior
I cant tell you this will lead to a date but simply saying hello is a big ice breaker. Ita the follow up that gets tricky, any time you can find common interest, like working out, it gives u a follow up topic to chat about. From there I dunno, one thing I can tell you is if shes interested you will know pretty quickly by how zhe responds, if she chats you up then she maybe into you, if she says hi back and kinda drifts off shes just being friendly
Great advice guys. I will try it
Dont talk about the weather
What is good to open withQuote:
Originally Posted by BABY1
Hi....Pause...can I give you a compliment? If you dont look or sound creepy, most women want to hear a compliment. There are probably a million other opening lines, but that one has worked. Its how I met my common law wife at the grocery store. Ive met other women the same way. It works great at the mall. lol As long as its not a tacky compliment like "Nice ass!" or "great boobs!" lmaoQuote:
Originally Posted by dirtwarrior
If they are fit
Hi (pause) you look great do you work out
or something like that?
Yep, that one is a good one. Then I invite them to meet me at the gym for a workout LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by dirtwarrior
your a creeper dzone hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by Dzone
haha, you gotta risk being thought a creeper but you can minimize the creep factor by having a good vibe. LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by guns01
Lol! Fuzo says ' You have a great smile" and the an intro with his name and a handshake. Only guy who ever offered me a handshake
Pass her a note that says "do you like me" "circle yes or no)
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lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Uncle Ric
if it works 1 out of 100 times then you are a success and you never know. you could find the one. i have seen a few creepers in the gym get crushed by women being creepers. hey are you getting ready to compete? you want to work out with me. sir, no and no and it looks like you dont even workout lmao. the one dude has a horrible rep and all the women talk shit about him and make fun of him. it's sad but hilarious at the same time watching him. worse game ever.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dzone
i even saw him one day ask a lady how many sets she had left. she took her headphone out and said i have quite a few then put her headphone back in. he waited a sec and then asks her, do you want to do arms with me today. she didnt even answer him, she put her headphone back in again and turned her back. i rolled in the floor laughing at him to his face. little fat dude with homemade muscle shirts.
lmao, that's hilariousQuote:
Originally Posted by guns01
if you sit back in between sets or if you are waiting on a piece of equipment, it will both entertain you and blow your mind at the same time. the funniest ones are the dudes that are married and train with their wives sometimes. when they are solo they spend the entire time chatting it up with all the ladies. when the wife is with them it's head down and all work. i will actually jump in the middle of these fools and ask them to move along if i am waiting on what they are taking space up on. so it irritates me at the same time as it is entertainment.Quote:
Originally Posted by BABY1
Most of the good looking women in the gym have headphones on so guys wont bother them.
Truth!Quote:
Originally Posted by Dzone
not in my gym man. some of these dudes are absolutely patheticQuote:
Originally Posted by Dzone
Get some good eye contact goin on. Either that will make her turn away , stare you back down, or make a connection. Probably not with a BIG smile though. Eye contact with an ear to ear smile may seem a bit cray cray BUT not to everyone