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My ex broke her vacuum and asked if I had an extra she could borrow. I did have one and got it out of the closet. The filter was dirty so I took it outside to clean the filter, a little dust got on the vacuum it did not effect how it worked. It worked fine.
3 days later she calls fussing about the vacuum being dusty. I told her how ungrateful she is.
Who is wrong in this. ME for the vacuum being a little dusty. HER for fussing about it.
Key word..... Ex!
Theres always going to be drama over the lil things in life...
Dont look for the right or wrong. You helped, and that is all you can do. Her fussing is on her. Most of the time the thing we are *****ing about is a deflect from the real issue
Complaining about the vacuum you let her borrow? PSYCHO! lol Good you got rid of her
Baby1 only if that calm...real reply ya just said!Quote:
Originally Posted by BABY1
Was the response of the woman in my life today and years ago....i prolly
Would of been a lot calmer person!
dont ***** about something you borrowed from someone to help you out. that's plain bs and i would have asked for it back and told her not to ask for help again. walmarts arent to hard to find and you can finance and electrolux or rainbow vac like a car. so no cash for a cheapy finance one of the high dollar ones
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Originally Posted by Arx International
I just hit 50...I am finally calm. Time for fun! I am not a "I'm right your wrong" person. All about the energy
Yep, agree with the others. She is 100% in the wrong. So what it is dusty, she should clean it and return it better than you loaned it to her.
Also do not loan stuff to ex's. there is a reason they are ex.