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OK..WE ALL HAVE THINGS JUMP UP AND BITE US IN THE A**. SO HERE IS A CHANCE TO UNLOAD AND LET IT OUT.
FOR ME ITS BEEN LIKE THIS....
JUST WENT BACK TO WORK AFTER BEING LAID OFF FOR THREE MONTHS...( BIG BREATH) WHEEL BEARING, TIE ROD AND FRONT BRAKES GO ON CAR...THEN...A CROWN CAME OFF A TOOTH IN MID CHEW AND FRACTURED ANOTHER TOOTH....( BIG BREATH) AND MY PHONE TOOK A DUMP, WIPING OUT ALL CONTACTS, E MAILS, PHOTOS ETC...
AAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! SH** SON OF A B****
AWE Zoot! WTF!! Don't you feel amazingly strong now? keep going...its never over,:)
We must be brothers lol. I have all kinds of crap happen the past few months, its starting to finally get better.
Just hang in there bud and tr not to let everything get to you too much.
Thank you for this thread. We havent had one of these in a long time. Friday night I went to my nieces 1 year old birthday party and locked my keys in the car. I called AAA aqnd was on hold for 30 minuteds. Then it took an hour and a half for the locksmith to get there ...It was pouring down rain so I had to stand outside in the rain the whole time. I didnt get to spend any time at all there with my family. By the time I got into my truck, the party was about over %$##@@!#% Thank you lol
I did have a prayer answered just a minute ago, that took a whole lot of stress off my shoulders.
My grandmother owns a building and a small bit of land around it, which sounds like something good. But she is on disability and gets hardly any money and hasnt been able to sell it, so taxes from the past 2 years piled up and are outrageously expensive. I been paying for her home bills and the taxes/bills for that building and my stuff too. Just barely getting by week to week.
She just told me she sold it yesterday finally so all that is over for her and me. Plus i got a interview for a better job tuesday so maybe thing s will look up from here on out.
I just got home from church .. usually I go with my sister in her van but today her husband had something to do after church so we went in my car.. Without telling me she went to pick up her best friend and as her best friend comes out she said oh you don't mind do you ?? I WAS LIKE WTF !!.. So I decided to get over it.. When church was over we usually go out as a family for llunch but guess who she invited?? Yup that same friend.. Now this lady doesn't shut the hell up for nothing and my sister asks inf ront of her why I looked moody and I rolled my eyes and pointed to the back seat.. Then my sister said " Well I invited her , was that ok " .. I'm like WTF again ... She lives on the other side of from where I live.. So its 15 min to get her, 15 to go to eat, 15 min back , and 15 min to get to my home.. Usually I don't mind but I don't got a husband that has a good job and gives me money every day.. I have to make that Gas money last me for a good while.
Just before that some woman comes up to me just before the spanish service started , asked me if I was my exs wife and I'm like " who wants to know and who cares " .. She said " I'm he's new gf and you are the hasbeen and will never be with him with me around " and I was like " So whats your point because so far this is sounding good to me and I hope you stick around for a long time " .. That took her of guard ..
The good thing about my sister is that when it comes to me she's like a bull dog.. Anyone comes near me she puts herself infront of me and confronts who ever is trying to intimadate me or wanting to hurt me. Its a sibling thing I guess.. You know what I mean? No one can hurt me but only her . kind of thing lol.
I haven't had a steady job since I got laid off in November but Iv got a great job again BUT I gotta go to Iowa which is bitter sweet as all my family is in Oklahoma just pisses me off I gotta move to another state to have a good job... However this company is supposed to be in the process of getting contracts in Oklahoma so when that happens I can come back so I pray it happens soon because my wife and I are having another baby jan 15th... Hopefully things are turning around.
Not enough space here for me lol. Thank God for my animals who always listen
zoot you can only go up from here..
I've spent the last 7 months trying to get a construction loan to finish my house that is almost half way done.. it didn't take me that long of my credit my credit score is in the 800's. it was the freaking bank.. I started the house on my own in my state you the home owner can build his own house and he can be the general contractor. which I can pull the permit and do what ever work I want or I can sub it out.. but the bank had to have a general contractor so I found one.. then we had to sign a contract with myself and the GC. then the bank didn't like some way it was written and they kicked it out several times.. like they didn't read the whole contract or not. so I finally asked them did you guys read the whole thing? just make sure there was nothing else I would need to change in the contract..one thing we had to agree was to use the banks draw schedule which we put in the contract and that was one of the first thing they kicked out of the first contract.. then after
everything is approved the bank tells me we are all set and the bank guy ask me what draw schedule we are using I was like WTF we are using the banks you made me and the GC to agree to that and put it in the contract he tells me we did I was like what the hell..
we go to closing after to closing the paper work goes back to the title company to them to send the papers back to our county to get recorded 2 weeks went by so I call and I am told by the title company they sent it to the wrong county again WTF..
i will vent here with you guys but my vent is trival in the fact that i am well taken care of and dont have nothing near happening in my life you guys do. you guys have every right to tear it up and let it rip for sure. here is my rant and why i had to forgo the competitive season this year:
ok we will back track a bit to last year. got a former bud that started up a sup business. well i am going to be his poster baby, full ride sponsorship the whole 9 yards. supps taken care of shows paid for travel and everything else. pretty sick deal right? hell no way wrong way way wrong. so i make the mistake of bringing on his wife as a training partner and cient and my wife went to work for her as well. also i am going to note, i am not selfishness nor stingy so i offered up and paid half on some of my expenses. so when my first fees of my offseaon comes up, i paid it all in full and set myself back big time by doing so. this is after i gave him a 2 month notice and weekly reminder. 1 month later and after i fell behind on some bills, i got his half. should have been my indicator on this was a bad deal right then and there. ok rest of the offseason is going well and coming up on getting ready to prep. so i start warning 2 months in advance hey we need to get x amount of money ready to cover my costs and it has to be in no later than this date. again at least weekly reminders this is coming up sometimes multiple times per week. so me being smart and proactive and trying to help him out because he can use it as a cash write off, i give him my half so he can pay it with the store account. this was 3 full wks in advance of said deadline. i had also started dieting and prepping a full month and half early so i knew without a doubt i would rep the store at my best. deadline came and went, another wk another wk and nothing. well the wife has a little failing out with his over her being bipolar and treating eveyone like crap. so i blew up on both of them, dropped her and quit on him. guess when i got my money back? almost a month later. so since i didnt have it budgeted and went so far past the deadline i couldnt pay it all myself nor compete. so i had an entire year wasted.
i did learn a very very valuable lesson though. never really on someone else to help finance ventures that you work your heart out on. you always budget in for the full amount or you will get left with your dick in our hand.
oh and another twist to the tale on being super uber mega fucked by this dude. his female athletes didnt have any issues making their deadlines and both competed in national level shows on time this year. pretty amazing huh? and they dont rep the company for shit
Just wanted to add , cause guns kinda reminded me...mine is also trivial..money is money and being inconvenienced blows..but there are some people really struggling with serious life issues...but please no matter what is bothering you..unload it..it feels better to do so
Venting can be good for the soul.. I know once I vent to Baby about what bothers me or what makes me sad, I might cry, but afterwards I feel a bit better.. You may think its trivial but its not to you . so that makes it important too.. Well thats what I think anyways...Quote:
Originally Posted by ZOOT
I never believe that anyone can say one's problems are worse than another person. It's all in how one perceives and reacts to them. I have a couple lucky people, one being Diva that I do my unloading on and most of the time I just keep it all in because I find it hard for many people to just listen instead of saying things that piss me off, lol
That's what friends are for. Hope things get better for you
that sucks bro.. yea it might be trival but its the time wasted is I am sure what pissed you off also..Quote:
Originally Posted by guns01
to be honest apbt i was more upset with myself than anything. i knew the dude was a truth stretcher and exagerater and i already had my warnings and indicators when the first money was needed. so in reality it was my fault as well. just going to be a bigger better package this go round since it's the first time in probably 10 years i have had a full year off from show prepQuote:
Originally Posted by apbt549
to be honest apbt i was more upset with myself than anything. i knew the dude was a truth stretcher and exagerater and i already had my warnings and indicators when the first money was needed. so in reality it was my fault as well. just going to be a bigger better package this go round since it's the first time in probably 10 years i have had a full year off from show prepQuote:
Originally Posted by apbt549
Listen: I am as old as your mother probably older. MOVE do whatever you have to. Your young family needs a MASTER who is willing to do what's best for his family. You pray to the one GOD who will put you where you belong.Quote:
Originally Posted by smalls1
There's no way you and rake are 60 LOL... If so y'all look young! But yes I'm going, there's no way I could pass this up. God has a plan and I feel this is the right place for me!
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Originally Posted by Trixie
I didnt press like to everything bc this comp i have is a piece of crap. but i love you all and im her efor anyone if they ever need me,
Oh man, thats what sucks is that we see all the warning signs and red flags, but we want to believe the best about people. We want to believe that other people are as trustworthy as we are. Unfortunately, we find out the hard way that there are people out there who are out for one thing and one thing only and thats themselves. They are fake and only pretend to care about you because they want to use you for something. Ive know a few of these exaggerators and truth stretchers over the years and no matter what, they can NEVER be trusted. Ive probably gotten overly cautious as Ive gotten older, but I can often see and avoid things now. When I was younger, I was blind to shit. lolQuote:
Originally Posted by guns01
Anyway, good luck guns with that situation. You will kick ass without that clown ...
Do people not know how to take showers anymore ?!?!?! ... Seriously it feels like people now a days merrinate in their perfumes / colognes instead of taking a plain shower.. My nose about melted today at the docs office with so many perfumes and smells.. I didn't know weather I was sick or just snotty ...
I am not a big proponent of complaining. But venting is different: Some many dumb fucks in Walmart just getting in my way makes me want to hit them.
SO MAD AT MYSELF. FELL ON HARD TIMES PERSONALLY AND FINANCIALLY. HAVEN'T BEEN TO THE GYM IN MONTHS, EATING POORLY AND JUST NOT DIING THE RIGHT THINGS. SMALLER THAN I GAVE BEEN IN YEARS. Y E A R S !!!! I FEEL LIKE SHIT LOOK LIKE SHIT AND MY MENTAL STATE IS SHIT. I KNOW WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO DO IT, BUT IM STUCK IN A RUT AND IM PISSED AT MYSELF FOR NOT BEING MORE PRO ACTIVE
My landlord sucks ! This is the third time he's put the house up for sale ! now I have every random asshole walking through my (his) house again ! My girlfriend just opened a business and that took a good chunk of cash, then ol' Mista landlord raises the rent and tells me he's selling the thing. It's gonna suck trying to find another house here in the country for rent under a grand...that doesn't smell like cat piss and cigarettes..meth and fleas.
Hate days like that brother just gotta roll and hope for a better day tomorrow
Thanks MountainMan, for some reason it's not bothering me too much now. staying busy with Kempo, new cycle, and moving into a new season kinda helps me forget a little. I'm just going to miss going outside or looking out my window and not having another house in front of me. the train horn at 14:30, the weather, riding my bike to the gym, cool neighbors, I'm sure a lot of folks here been through that too.
Hey brother, that can happen to the best of them. Dont beat yourself up too much over it. We all have those things we are battling to overcome. Sometimes, those things get the bes t of us. Hang in there and one step at a time you will totally bounce back. Youre a strong individual and you can do itQuote:
Originally Posted by ZOOT
I have hypoglycemia. I was working outside in the heat and guess it made me burn my calories off faster than usaul. My sugar got low and i passed out, hit my head on thr pavement and it busted my left ear drum. Doesnt feel too awesome.
damn animal that sucks man.Quote:
Originally Posted by animal87
ah i ll be alright