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That's cool man, you gotta put what's most improtant first. Just don't be gettin the itch and do it behind her back, that'll be a shiot storm for real.
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no i won't do that i am a very upfront person and won't be doing things behind her back that's for sure. this one is going to be the one i keep so she gets treated like the princess she is
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one thing i've learned, the worst part of a relationship is the lying and trust issues. if you tell her you're not going to....then DON'T! we won't think any less of you brother if you stop, just figure out what's more important. gear, or your relationship with your gf that you obviously care about?
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jamescb77
no i won't do that i am a very upfront person and won't be doing things behind her back that's for sure. this one is going to be the one i keep so she gets treated like the princess she is
Then you're good to go brother. Reps to ya for bein stand up enough and smart enough to prioritize. Hope it all works out for ya.
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good call james,
hell your big and strong anyways, lol
i'm doing well without, just kinda got tired of it
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aas will help you get the look you want..and will help you perform better. I know tons of bros who stopped using aas...even working out... bc of their girlfriends..in the end their girlfriends have left them..for someone else..and they never looked the same..
I understand when you love someone you would do anything for them and stuff..but this AAS thing is not like you're injecting yourself with heroin or meth - its something that you use to achieve your goal..
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This is a good example of why i keep my use strictly private! I have in the past considered and even feel the need to tell her but I know in the end she will use it against me during the heat of the moment. But really, you can't blame people for caring about you and by her demanding you stop shows she is concerned about your health... good luck and be nice to her, that's what will really make her happy.
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smart man james...if my wife had a prob, i wouldnt think twice!! your right not to do it behind her back either...your a stand up guy! she's a lucky gal!
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well guys just to let you know she never demanded or even asked for me to stop she only said that it botheres her very very much i was the one that offered to stop and told her that i would because i don't like to see her or make her upset. this is the one im going to keep and really don't wanna have secrets from her it's a small thing to go without to be happy for life
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also diggi im not going to stop working out she understands my goals and dreams but wants the best for me and out future family she is smart and understands the whole situation also the problem i had was that she occasionaly smokes weed like maybe 3 times a year. i can't ask her to stop and tell her that im going to continue to do this
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WE SHOULD ALL STOP USING THEM.. I MEAN WIFES, GIRLFRIENDS AND SOMEONES BOYFRIENDS (WTF LOL) WANT WHATS THE BEST FOR US...THEN WHY DO WE DON'T WANT WHATS BEST FOR US ??
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Smart move bro! So what, you shrink down from 350 to 320, big deal, you are still a big mofo. lol But, you did the right thing.
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diggi
WE SHOULD ALL STOP USING THEM.. I MEAN WIFES, GIRLFRIENDS AND SOMEONES BOYFRIENDS (WTF LOL) WANT WHATS THE BEST FOR US...THEN WHY DO WE DON'T WANT WHATS BEST FOR US ??
Dude, I don't think your gettin it. James really digs this chick, and wants to make it work. He's doin the right thing.
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