Finally Going To Be A Papi!!!

44 year old TheChosen1 may finally become a father. :baby:

Granted, I know you guys may hear that very often from couples and it's almost as exciting as watching paint dry. But this one is a bit different. 10 years ago, I was married to a very emotionally abusive woman and she wanted us to have a baby. To be sure of our health, she asked that we both get thouroughly tested and examed. And wouldn't you know, not one but two doctors claimed that I could not have children. Funny thing is, I got results from few sperm counts to no sperm counts and even millions and millions of dead sperms. Personally, I didn't believe them but my wife insisted that the doctors know what they're talking about. I was placed on various drugs to increase our possibilities. Clomids, testestorones, you name it.

Last month, my 26 year old live-in girlfriend told me that she and her best friend/co-worker has their periods at the same time and that her friend's period was the week prior. I began teasing her about being pregnant but she insisted that there was some confusion. The following week, she had to go to her hometown of Alabama to attend her father's funeral and we spoke on the phone daily. In addition to constantly telling her that I missed her, I asked her if "Aunt Flow" showed up. Each time was a NO SHOW.

Long story short........A couple of weeks ago, she was very tired (been that way alot lately) and decided to go to bed early. About an hour and half later, I went to bed and to my surprise, she woke up because she needed to talk to me. She looked up at me and told me, "I'm 5 weeks pregnant." I was completely surprised and happy. She told me that she didn't want to announce it to anyone yet because this is actually our 2nd pregnacy. She told me that she once had a miscarriage after only 4 weeks.

Maybe you ladies who have had or having children can help me because I'm hoping that since she is now almost 2 months pregnant, it's safe to say that it's a healthy pregnacy.

THATS GREAT NEWS MAN.

Congrats brother!

Awesome news for the both of you TC1....best advice I can give is lots of love and support for Neph and immediate prenatal care :)

keep us posted Papi

Congrats to you and her bro. That's always a gift.

well, i know i'm not a lady (last i check, anyway!), but to answer your question, i dont think you can ever say 100% thats it's a "healthy preg.". exspecially if she's had a prev. miscarriage. but, every day, your one day closer, aand the odd's tip in your favor. goodluck bro, and congrats. i really do hope all goes well, and we'll be hearing about the babies birth!
oh, and i aint no doctor, just a dumb@ss with a computer! lol

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Originally Posted by daved150

well, i know i'm not a lady (last i check, anyway!), but to answer your question, i dont think you can ever say 100% thats it's a "healthy preg.". exspecially if she's had a prev. miscarriage. but, every day, your one day closer, aand the odd's tip in your favor. goodluck bro, and congrats. i really do hope all goes well, and we'll be hearing about the babies birth!
oh, and i aint no doctor, just a dumb@ss with a computer! lol

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What did you stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night? lol just kidding. I actually agree 100% with you that you can never be certain everything will be ok. I certainly hope all goes well for you papi.
Congrats.

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Originally Posted by McKenzie

Awesome news for the both of you TC1....best advice I can give is lots of love and support for Neph and immediate prenatal care :)

keep us posted Papi

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Love? Support? Immediate Prenatal Care? Well, I guess 2 out of 3 ain't so bad...lol. She's definately got the love and care from me. But McKenzie, when she constantly have those late night fattening cravings (granted, my Sweetie is no small fry but I still try to monitor her caloric intakes), that's where I draw the line. LOL

In addition to what's been posted, I want to thank you all for your congrats and support.

Best wishes to ya !

congrats man

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Originally Posted by TheChosen1

Love? Support? Immediate Prenatal Care? Well, I guess 2 out of 3 ain't so bad...lol. She's definately got the love and care from me. But McKenzie, when she constantly have those late night fattening cravings (granted, my Sweetie is no small fry but I still try to monitor her caloric intakes), that's where I draw the line. LOL

In addition to what's been posted, I want to thank you all for your congrats and support.

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I just want her to have reassurance for a healthy pregnancy (considering her past medical history/miscarriage) and by seeing her OB/GYN early to they can monitor the baby's progress...things will work out better for everyone :)

Dont worry so much about those late night cravings TC1....Let her enjoy :D

Of course you know...its the Papi's job to get up in the middle of the night to go get the goodies and bring them back to the mommie :D

Congrats bro!!!

congrats and good luck man!

Congrats!