Do you love a woman/or your woman for her beauty/body or her intelligence?
please discuss
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Do you love a woman/or your woman for her beauty/body or her intelligence?
please discuss
Well, with my wife it started out as physical beauty. She's 5'10" 125 lbs dark brown hair and blue eyes. My dream girl. Then, as we dated I realized she was everything I wanted to be. She didn't party like I did, she wasn't as irresponsible as I was and she was closer to God than I was. Now that we've been married for 5 years I can honestly say what I love the most about her is the way she respects and supports me. The body/face, sense of humor and intellignece is just a perk.
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Originally Posted by McKenzie
good question ! but i think after all i been thru looks is key but more so is whats inside. to be able to get along with someone or have same interests, etc is more important. appearance i think is always the first thing that catches someones eye but what they have inside is how u can keep them or have a good relationship.
Yep, good point! We are attracted to them physically, but we fall in love with what's on the inside. I don't care how hot the woman is if she's a total ***** or if she is just a bad person then there is no chance.Quote:
Originally Posted by space mountain
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Originally Posted by T-Man007
exactly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!
it depends also on what a person is looking for ! when i was 25 say all i wanted was some ass now what i want has changed some . now i want to spend the rest of my life with someone who i get along with can care for etc not sex first and lets see how we get along
all of the above. i was first attracted by her looks and was hooked when i realized the girl was smart. it will be 15 years this december for us
I had a great attraction to my wife when I first laid eyes on her, but the thing that intrigued me the most was her intellect. It was her personality & intelligence that won my heart. The other things were just a plus! Most importantly was the fact she had a caring nature about her that was genuine.
For me it was physical at first, then everything else got me hooked. After our first night together we both just knew that we were going to be together.
i dont like my women too smart, can create problems.
seriously though, intellect is a must. Though personally, physical attraction is always what starts it all off.
Are you working on another thesis Mck? lol...
looks will go with time. an intelligent woman is a must. Ive been with stupid women, its just not worth the agravation.
nope...no thesis. just curious.Quote:
Originally Posted by mick-G
Thank you gentlemen for replying.
single now :DQuote:
Originally Posted by McKenzie
But they have to have both.
I wouldn't date a "Paris Hilton" type who is good looking but dumb. Just as I wouldn't date a girl I got along with on all levels that I wasn't physically attracted too.
I fell in love with my wife after I seen her suck a golf ball through a garden hose.