PART 2 MY EX GIRL

ok, since u all know we broke up coz of her dad and her religion, last night i was going to dc wt my boys and then some1called me private at 11:30 pm, usually on my dead body i don't pick up so i picked up and was my ex, adn she was calling me baby, my life, i miss doing everything wt u and i'am confused and i was like are u happy wt him and she was like dunno, it is going , then shw was like i miss doing all the stuff we used to do 2gether and so forth, she was like we were also best friend shared aour problems and what have u. then was like i wanna talk 2 u but scared from him(her man, her ex that she got back wt him coz of her father), and was like he will filp out and kept on talking and talking and i was liek i jsut got at teh club got 2 go bye and hung up.
DID I DO THE RIGHT THING OR NOT???? OF COURSE DEEP IN MY HEART I LOVE HER AND MISS HER BUT I KNOW IT IS NOT GOING TO WORK OUT AS LONG AS HER FATHER IS ALIVE AND THEN I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT ANYMORE.
ANY COMMENTS????????:confused:

you could have just said what you told us "DEEP IN MY HEART I LOVE HER AND MISS HER BUT I KNOW IT IS NOT GOING TO WORK OUT AS LONG AS HER FATHER IS ALIVE AND THEN I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT ANYMORE"..but its understandable why you did what you did. I'm sure she knows you love her ..but you gotta do what you gotta do to get by..She has to accept that ..It's a tough situation..basically she has to pick having a relatiopnship with you or her father -correct??

I'd say to just be nice to her if she does call because maybe shell realize she has to be with you no matterwhat the consequences..try to keep on somewhat good terms, never burn bridges, but at the same time do what you can to get through the day--hope that helps

yeah u are right, she knows for fact that i love her to death, i don't need to tell her, coz she told me that she knows, i wasn't mean to her but knew wasn't going to work out since i'am christian and she is muslim. and her father watns me to convert in order to date her , i cannot do that with all my respect 2 both of them!!!!! why can't she convert to christain and then date me ????? anyway i texed her very late last night saying if u need help, or if u have problems or anthing that u wanna talk about call me and even i went as far saying even if u are getting hurt by ur man, or having aprob and wanna talk about , i will help her out the best i can.

if she is the one nothing should stop you from her

jack she is the one but read the post where it said HURT BIG TIME and follow the storie , it is not fair

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Originally posted by big_mike1979
why can't she convert to christain and then date me ?????

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First of all, YES YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. Secondly, why does either of you need to convert to be together. It would be nice yes, but should be a neccesity. If she says she can't date you because your not Muslim than that equates to the fact that she is not willing to accept you 100% persent for who you are, as you are. And you don't deserve or want a chick like that. I'm Christian(Baptist) and my girl is a devote Catholic. We knew this early on in the relationship and accept eachother as how we are. Yes we see many things differently but we just agree to disagree. You did the best thing last night. Remain her freind but MOVE ON.

And how come I didn't get an invite to go clubbing you little punk:D

large, last night we met and we stay will 4 am in the morning and takjing and talking, and i told her look, i wish u teh best and i wll be there for u if u need help or if u are hurt or anything like that, it is cool wt me.
buy the way PUNK:rolleyes: didn't know that u like to go, and next month one the biggest clubs in DC called fur night club is going to be open and going to be a bouncer over there will hit u up punk:cool:

This sounds like Romeo and Juliet almost,this sucks that her damn father will not except you because of your religion,I've heard fathers not excepting guys with their daughters because of race but religion is a new one to me then again it doesn't surprise me these days that this is going on.

If it were me bro and I truely cared about this girl like you do,I wouldn't give a flying fuck what her father thinks I would marry the girl and move to a place where only my family would know where it would be but that's just me you got do what you think is right and go from there,like I mentioned in your other thread we can give you advice but it's you and you alone that can only decide what to do,this is a very serious and complex problem and you need to treat it like fine china so bro search your heart and find the answers you seek and do what needs to be done,I wish the best of luck to ya and if you need to talk to someone then don't hesitate in pm'ing me.

THANKS INTENSITY, i will and last night i went to paltinum club in dc and they had a lingerie fashion show and then a play mate from playboy kristin jackson and told her when she called me and she was like if u were mine i wouldnt let u go and she kinda got pissed and tehn she texed me like 5 time around 5 am how much she misses me adn where am i , if i'am sleepin or not , but i was sleepin and didn't hear the texs. it is all good