I need some advise, help, I'm just kinda trippin'.

So my ex called me the other day, she needed a number, so we kinda got to talking about things. I told her I quit talking to my best friend I've known for 25 years or so, he's been playing me and ripped me off a few times. So she tells me she's been over to a new friend of mines hanging out (he and his wife threw me my 50th b-day) she said he offered to have her stay the night and party sometime with he and his wife,... I told this dude about how she just dogged me over eight years. How she walked out on me a few(a lot) times and left me hangin' with a s#itload of bills, cheated on me, verbally abused me and all other kinds of nasty stuff. I confided in this guy, "I consider you a brother, I love ya man" he says. He knows about how this chick screwed me every which way, and how she ripped my heart out and spat on it,.. and now come to find out he's like all buddy buddy with her ? She's supposedly coming over tomorrow, I'm thinking play dumb and just pop over there and see the reaction, then catch up with him another day and telling him to go f#ck himself basically. Wouldn't you all consider that,.. a breach of honor. I'm a forgiving sucker, I screwed up and been forgivin' many times is why I put myself in this. But I mean I thought we're all being for real now ? That's why I stay by myself except for my friends at the Dojo. I just gotta' quit being so gullible and blind. How do you all feel about something like this ?

Damn that just sux and I feel for you. I have come to realize that people are just not as good/kind, as some of us are. I think all are capable but it takes work and is much easier the other way. You confided in him, and I feel he took some of that, and ran with it. Inviting her over to party with him and his wife? Not cool at all, after you told him what she did to you. "birds of a feather flock together" There are just some people, that even though we think are "real" they just are not. I would say let it go, for your own good, and have nothing more to do with him. However, express how you feel about this first, to him, but I wouldnt believe a word that comes out of his mouth again

I wouldn't be able to trust him any more after that. Especially after you confided in him and let him know how she treated you and how you felt about her. In my opinion it's messed up that he's inviting her over to hang out and party knowing all of that. How does he and his wife even know her? I mean, did he know her before you guys were friends, or did he meet her after?

Sorry brother I would feel stabbed in the back I hope ur ok I'm here for ya if u need to talk

yep i would def light his ass up and never be on speaking terms again. i hold grudges for life with people that dick me over

Let'em have each other.. don't even stress. Lifes to short to care for those who don't care. In my life I find what you do comes back to you so let them do what they want and move on.. the best revenge is not giving a fvck..

Girl code, guy code...I don't care. Expecially when emotions were involved. Friends don't f'uk with ex's. Mine are off limits & so are yours.
I'm not good at just letting things go it eats at me in a bad way. Sounds like he was never a friend to you. So tell him about himself, punch him in the mouth and move on.
IMO