TweetI hope all goes well but I don't think they even know each other yet. Odds are against them.
Hopefully they prove everyone wrong and things will be great.
It is a happy day.

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Originally Posted by FUZO

dave there way to young to get married and odds are they will be divorced soon.

I AGREE....ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY GO OFF TO SCHOOL....TOO MUCH TEMPTATION

Tweetit is what it is...i'll try to get some pics up

Tweet^^^I gotta see pics of this Michigan hillbilly wedding!! he he j/k Dave

TweetBest of luck D, prayers/well wishes headed your way!

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Originally Posted by Doink the clown

^^^I gotta see pics of this Michigan hillbilly wedding!! he he j/k Dave

DONT FUKIN JOKE!!! THAT's EXACTLY WHAT IT IS!!!! we went to rehersal lastnight and it looks like something 2-12 yr olds planned!! seriously. they wanted to do it all theirself with no help....welp...they did it!!!

Tweet[QUOTE=daved150;904872]omg sweeties, THATS THE PROB!!! they have pushed them into this. they forbade her from seeing him when they first started dating, without even meeting him. she was dating a 22yr old from their church that was in school to be a school teacher. (she was 17 at the time). the mom and dad hooked her up with that!!! they took away her car, grounded her, turned off her cell phone...anything they could do, so she moved out of their house. it's a long story, but basicly they told her she's not welcome to come home unless she breaks up with my son and begs to get the old boyfriend back, so she moved in with us (she's 18 now). becouse of her religion, she is miserable, feeling now she's living in sin. so....they'll get married!! she wants to get married at 18 becouse she cant live in sin....yea...this is gonna work out just fine....






Well, that in it self tells the whole story~!! Parents like that don't need children!! Very respectable of you to let here stay with you!! I must I hope that her religion won't be the breaker here. Lets hope not though!!



Stay Strong~~!!!
IPL

TweetWith any luck - and it will take a lot - this will be an enlightenment to her and maybe she'll see how whacked her folks are.
Then maybe the things that aren't 100% in the right place now will slowly become a way for the two of them to become truly a married couple.

Who knows?

I knew what I wanted when i was 20 - you know what - it still hasn't changed.

I got married when I was 21 - she was 19.
She thought everything would be just picture perfect and all happy roses.

Neither of us had a clue what it was to be like being married but if two people are working toward a common goal then it can work. They can find strength in each other and the relationship by this.
Are they working toward anything???
Or just "getting married"?

It sounds like the latter but who the hell knows what goes on in peoples heads anymore.
Lord knows I don't!


Sal

Tweeti'll take the opposite side, at least she shows some gumption, breaking up the other guy even though it severed her relationship with her parents, that's pretty brave

not wanting to live in sin, not the worst value system in the world

crazier things have happened, wishe em luck and prayers daved151

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Originally Posted by trip

i'll take the opposite side, at least she shows some gumption, breaking up the other guy even though it severed her relationship with her parents, that's pretty brave

not wanting to live in sin, not the worst value system in the world

crazier things have happened, wishe em luck and prayers daved151

no, your right...i've looked at that too...still, not what i'd call anywhere near a good move at this time. i could be (and hopefully am) wrong!! seperately they are pretty solid. he's going too school to be a licenced diesel mechanic and she's going to school to be a nurse...its just that i didnt need to take on another kid to raise! they're not thinking...yea, dont live in sin, fine...go get a fukin apartment, lol. but, they jump into marriage so she can live here and i can support her....wtf? lol...glad your soul is clean as you put more financial stress on me. wouldnt want you to burn for my financial hardship!! i dont know...somehow it could all workout fine! i dont hammer him for their decission....i gave my opinion and as i guessed, they blew it off. now, their gonna do what they want.....i just dont see how this is gonna workout anywhere near good for them

Tweetwell, your son has surprised you quite a bit over the last two years

i know what you mean though, not alotta logic on several fronts, hard too see anything but the bumps on the road

nothing i cringe more at then common sense being pretty slim