I Should be relived but I'm not.

[##spiderbaby##]

TweetI have been dating this woman for a long, long time. Almost a decade. She was everything on my list when we started dating, in fact I was paranoid because I did not have what it took then to expect the type of woman that was on my list. She had all the great mother charachteristics and was hot. (wow!) Well long/short she, over 4 years turned into my "must not have" list. And I mean everything on the list. She started lying, drinking, sneaking and more lying, it was a nightmare. So I decided no more! I told her to get lost but nicely and didnt see her for awhile Then I stopped by to do her a favor and ended up giving in to my hormones . She tells me right after orgasm, and I mean right after, that she stopped taking the pill 2 months ago! She took the pill for 7 damn years! I tried to get her to stop taking it several times but she wouldnt, and now she decides. SO for the last week and a half I have been sweating bullets. Then she tells me were clear and I feel this weird sense of loss. WTF is that all about? You hit your 30's and you turn retarded.

I should be elated that I didnt make a child with this woman who I cannot trust but instead feel sort of meloncholy. What gives and why do i feel the need to fix all the women that have been in my life?

Anyway, someone should slap me for sleeping with her.

[BigSoda]

TweetDon't know bro,but be happy if she is not a woman that you wouldn't like to be with.Next time no favors.

[koss]

TweetHey man, I totally hear you on this. First off, there's nothing wrong with what happened between you. think of it as payback for the favor second, Ive been dying for kids since I turned thirty. I dont want to be the geezer at the playground farting and holding my sides while chasing my rugrat. But I guess so long as were men, we cant be in control of when to have kids.

[darmadoc]

TweetIt sounds like your looking for a relationship that has stability, honesty and the possibility for a family. These all sound like good things to want. The fact that you don't currently have these things and are not destined to get them with a woman you've committed a lot of time and emotional energy to sounds like reasonable grounds for melancholia.

I think you are describing a normal set of emotional responses. HOWEVER, if you keep wasting your time on this relationship I think you will be getting into a dangerous area. Good luck!

[jack hust]

Tweetstay away from her move on imho

[pudgy]

Tweetbuy some condoms until you find a good one

[beachgirl]

Tweetyou'll probly get back together with her...I know you shouldn't but that is what seems to always happen! Dont do it!!! )

[##spiderbaby##]

TweetThanks for the replies guys(& gals)

-Beachgirl- I hear you, that is what was happening. I didnt realize it then bu what the hell else was I helping her for? Its not like it would have been difficult for her to find someone to help her move some boxes...

omg, lol, she asked me to "help her move some boxes" and I fell for it. Maybe guys are dumb when it comes to women.
...move some boxes... for fuck sakes, I am retarded.


-Koss, thats the way I have been. The thing is I want the whole package. I want the life that comes with having children, which means that I am in a loving honest and respectfull relationship with a beautiful woman and I am a great provider for my family both finacially and mentaly/spiritualy. The whole thing. Oh yea, and I live on the beach or a waterway.

Thanks guys. Sometimes you need to hear from others that your instincts are correct because telling a hot woman to get away can get more difficult the longer you deprive yourself of sex

[morbid316]

TweetDUDE your thinking with your wrong head use the one on your shoulders

I swear this chick will trap you you get her prego and you will be fucked

[BODY]

TweetIt sounds like the story w/ my partner of 9 years. I wish you luck finding the right woman. Keep looking and dont compromise, the reward will be worth the wait.

[LOCO]

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Originally posted by beachgirl
you'll probly get back together with her...I know you shouldn't but that is what seems to always happen! Dont do it!!! )

yup. i agree... took me one time almost a year to get rid of the person completely...
that's what happened when u think with ur balls...