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Originally posted by High Octane
I got news for you, more times then Not women are a bigger problem then men. I bounce in 2 different night clubs, one on Thurs Nights and one on Sat Nights, the one on thurs Nights holds 1400 people, they have Bikini Bull riding and Thurs night rock night with $1.00 shots. We have punks love to start trouble but when the bouncers like myself make their presense fealt, usually the punks cool down, but it's their girlfriends that give the big mouths and attitudes. I had one woman flick her cigarrette at me. I saw a flash of red I was so pissed, I just bent over picked it up and walked away. I hate dealing with women, so much so I have urged this club to hire a FEMALE Bouncer, yes thats right I said a female Bouncer for circumstances like that one.
Women know the guys (95%) of them anyway, won't lay a hand on them, so they pretty much say and do what they damn well please. As long as I have been bouncing, I only ever had to rough a guy up one time, and that was by his choice, he decided to throw a elbow into me, right after he smacked a waitress in the back of the head. So I jacked the dude up, and we haven't seen him since. It wasn't an ego trip, and to this day I can tell you I fealt kinda bad, cause I knew I hurt that dude pretty bad. I always try to reason with a customer before I ever even resort to laying a finger on them. Many, many times I let people get away with breaking the rules, because I feel everyone should get another chance, but some people do push their luck.
I do know what you mean though, I have had several conversations with other fellow bouncers reguarding their rhetoric and conduct towards customers. So much so that I already had to get in a fellow bouncers face because of it. Heres one to watch for, we had a bouncer that at the front foor he was carding people and using the hand held metal detector on them, well when he used it on the women as he got close to them and wanded their legs, as he stood up he always made sure he brushed the side of his face against their breasts real sneaky like. I saw it, and I put an end to it real quick, and had that been my girl I would have lit him up myself. Just something to watch for. Sorry to hear your bad news dude.