every once in a while my bm will pull a power play on me based on something trivial . I accidentally called my son's mother a cvnt and he got mad. To be 100% real with you all, i respect the young man sticking up to me for his Mama. it cost me a few visits and a "you will never see your son again." BM used to say unless i go to court. she knows now im not going to take her to court. I have made that clear for years. im going straight to her fuckin face, bf, hubby, whole family and that fact can be scary for her cz i really dont care. bring a good fight worthy my son's affection. It's not going to happen and it hasn't so far. I will always take care of these situations on my own strength. Court sucks and i will not put my son thru it. I am a nightmare. The kind of father every mother hates, but respects.