TweetWe have spoken with my mother in law maybe 1x in the last 15 years. She is toxic and a horrible person and we are far better off without her or my brother in law who is a lazy POS.
I will give you an example
Context: My wife and I were moving when we moved in together 22 years ago, we saved change in a big beer mug and would go out to eat when we had enough as a treat. We did not make much and it was something we looked forward to. I caught my brother in law stealing our $$$.
BIL (brother in law): No I was not.
Me: Yeah you were (taps his pocket full of change)
BIL: I had that when I got here
Me: no you did not I SAW YOU TAKE IT DUMBASS!
BIL: I don't know what your talking about (and tries to walk away)
I start beating up my brother in law which causes everyone else to rush in the room.
MIL: (mother in law) Why are you hitting my baby!
Me: He stole our $$$
MIL: did you steal their $$$?
Wife: That mug was full BIL! You did steal it!
BIL: I am sorry.
MIL: How many times have I told you! YOU DO NOT STEAL FROM FAMILY!
Yep, They are POSs. My pops in law is way better off. He now owns 2 houses and acreage not supporting 2 deadbeat pieces of human debris.