I told my kids not to get in a fight because I fought all the time and found no redeeming value in it. But if you have no choice hit first and just keep hitting there is no such thing as a dirty fighter just a winner and a loser. To this day none of them have had a fight. Now I tell them don't get in a fight unless you are willing to kill another human being or be killed. I Pray my Kids never have to make that choice but if they do may the strength of God be with them.