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      My misses is fine with the idea of sarms and is considering ostarine for herself but..anytime aas are mentioned she craps on about how "harmful" they are etc..like an old lady and the "dangers" of weed..should I try and educate her? Or should I just say yes dear and go about a new cycle?

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      Default Re: Anyone ever have a partner that didn't want you on the gear?

      I went the education route when I started. The wife had a big issue with it, but I worked to explain why and asked her to trust me. I wasn't down with working constanty to hide it from her.

      That was many years ago...

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      Default Re: Anyone ever have a partner that didn't want you on the gear?

      i started a long time ago. when i enter a relationship now and i think its going somewhere i will tell them I use and if thats not ok with them don't waste our time. the response has always been "no shit you use."

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      Default Re: Anyone ever have a partner that didn't want you on the gear?

      Its like anything, if not educated or experienced on something, people tend to be scared and believe the negative they hear. I say try to educate, but she has too be willing to learn. If you are good with doing what she wants you too then that's up to you. I wasn't crazy about the idea when Fuzo started but he listed to what I had to say then said to me said "this is who I am" and learn about it. The more involved I became here, and all the friends I made, the learning never stopped and I fully support a persons choice to use it.
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      Default Re: Anyone ever have a partner that didn't want you on the gear?

      Educate for sure.

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      educate and never hide it. going to cause many more problems if you hide it and get caugth
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      If its a short term relationship, dont tell them. Too many guys have gone to jail because they told the wrong chick and she got pissed & turned him into the cops. Everybody has seen that happen. You gotta be careful

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      My wife never cared. had a gym partner that quit all gear and because his lifts went down and he lost size he wanted me to back in the day.
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      I say dont tell them until you are 100% certain she is not going to go crazy on you if you have to break up with her.
      Just seems like every guy who gets arrested, theres a vindictive ex calling the crime stoppers phone # to turn them in for ordering steroids thru the mail. Theres no need to tell every chick you bone that youre taking roids

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      For single dudes just casually dating, you gotta be totally 007 about gear use. If they ask, dont tell. Better to be safe. Now if its a long term deal or a marriage, you should be open about it.

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      Going on 7 years together and are engaged so it's not a short term thing. Talked with her about it and she said aslong as I don't get a "steroid gut" it's fine..not planning on slin or growth abuse so think I'll be alright ����thanks for the replies and insight guys

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      Default Re: Anyone ever have a partner that didn't want you on the gear?

      I started AAS a long time before my wife and I met and I didn't tell her up front until I was sure that it was going to be a long-term relationship. Once I was confident that we were more than just casual dating, I was honest with her about it and luckily she was very receptive in a positive way. I acquired a lot of knowledge on the subject over many years, so I was able to educate her and answer any question she had. Now as time has passed we've even moved into the realm of planning something for her to get on and so forth lol.
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      I agree educate is the best thing. I started to use again after several years of being with my ex-wife and she was a RN and she had issues with it and then had more issues with it after the results started showing and towards the end of our marriage she gave the guilt trip on me about she never thought she would be married to a drug user like I was a meth head or something..

      I told my current wife after a few years of being together before we got married and she was ok with it just wants me to be safe which I am..

      some ladies understand some don't like baby said educate and see where it goes from there.

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      My wife in the beginning was 100% against it so much so I lied my ass off for 2 years. She never had a clue until we were in the hotel room the Friday night before my first show. Then it all came out. But let me tell you this is how much class my wife has she didn't say a word until we were home. And then my marriage almost ended. It was very shitty and I wish I had never lied. But I felt like with my wife I would have to prove to her they were safe for the most part. She was stunned and shocked that I had been lying. Cause we have a awesome relationship. I'm lucky that she also realized how important it was to me and my goals. So it has all worked out but it would have been best to just be honest and educate.

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