I agree educate is the best thing. I started to use again after several years of being with my ex-wife and she was a RN and she had issues with it and then had more issues with it after the results started showing and towards the end of our marriage she gave the guilt trip on me about she never thought she would be married to a drug user like I was a meth head or something..

I told my current wife after a few years of being together before we got married and she was ok with it just wants me to be safe which I am..

some ladies understand some don't like baby said educate and see where it goes from there.