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Is this interested in me?
TweetSo I work in a wellness center as part of the staff but also teach classes and personal train.
An old client of mine started bringing her friend to workout with her. She took a class of mine and ended up liking it and came a couple of times. My old client was interested in training with me but I really am to booked up to accept any more clients. I explained this via email.
Well this new girl wanted a free workout, which we offer at the gym. She asked for my help so I helped her a couple of times. She brought up the fact I wasn't able to accept any new clients. I told her I might could squeeze her in somewhere for a half hour session.
We ended up working this out. She is young (mid-20s) and already runs 5K several times a week and does Barre classes at another gym, so I was surprised she wanted to spend the money to train with me.
Anyways she is really friendly. Always makes good eye contact with me, but then again she is a friendly person by nature to people she knows.
Well today (Saturday) I trained her again. She normally wears a tshirt and athletic shorts to workout in, but today she wore this really revealing tank top. She is blessed up top and flowing out of her top.On Saturdays hardly anyone comes to this wellness center.
I kept it professional and provided a solid workout for her. We have good communication.
She also knows I am married but never brings my wife up. Most of my clients at some point will end up talking about my wife and child.
I don't know just trying to read her and see if she likes me or something. I am not going to lie my relationship with my wife has been pretty rough the past several years. Some ups but alot of hard downs. We have spoken of divorce several times.
This girl has a lot of attributes that I wish my wife had (highly organized, self motivated, driven, disciplined, etc.). The point of me saying that is I don't know if I am just hoping she likes me or if I am really picking up that she might be interested. She plays with her hair but she never touches me or anything. We kid around alot but nothing beyond that.
So am I just wishing or is there something to this? By the way she has had a membership for years and hardly used it but now is coming consistently even on some days we dont train.
Thanks for any input.
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TweetSounds like she might be interested to may be time for a friendly lunch or something along that line
Mrs FUZO
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TweetIf you want your marriage...do what you need to to resist any temptation. Just my opinion
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TweetMaybe she just likes to flirt with her trainer and like the excitement.
Familiarity breeds contempt. You say she has qualities you wish your wife had, but you know all of your wife's strengths and flaws and don't even truly know this client.
My .02 is keep it professional at work and work on your relationship with your wife. Don't shit where you eat.
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TweetI dont know too many married trainers who trained hot women to ever stay married lol...Training between man and woman can get pretty damn intimate, the next thing you know youre having sex. Be Careful! You are playing with fire-Big Time!
Mrs FUZO
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TweetThanks for the feedback. I have been a trainer for 15 years and have dated my wife for 15 and been married for 10 years. We actually met at a place I use to be a fitness director at.
As I said we have gone through ups and downs in marriage and the past 2 years have been really rough. I have never cheated on my wife.
Also where I work we don't get alot of attractive women in here. I guess the thought of a younger woman who has a lot of qualities I long for being interested in me is just exciting and feels good. I guess I just need my ego stroked and some attention.
I highly doubt I would cheat, really just wanted to know if this woman was into me. Again the thought of an attractive younger woman being interested in me felt good and it has been a while since I felt like this.
You guys are correct. I truly do not know her, as long as I am married that is a no-no, and to have an affair with a client is highly unprofessional. I know all these things and have always honored these things in my life. Again I just wanted to know if this girl was into me. As I said looking for an ego boost.
Mrs FUZO
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TweetYou said it well, listen to your words. There isn't a person around that doesn't like to feel flattered...especially as we age. That is healthy and sometimes it can open your eyes to what you already have. Always remember why you fell in love in the first place and look at old picturesOriginally Posted by qhams
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Tweeti have no idea. i am so bad at reading signals. all i know is the grass is always greener on the other side
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TweetThe grass is always greener over the septic tank
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TweetIt is so funny. At times I am happy with my wife but there are also times I am absolutely sick of living with her. We are such different people and I admit I have a bit of a control issues, in terms of I wish we could raise our child a certain way, manage our money a certain way, etc. I feel if I had married someone more similar to me in these areas my life/relationship would be much smoother.
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Tweetyes, she's interested in you and you're interested in her. imo now it comes down to is it worth it to possibly ruin your kids lives? is marriage that bad to risk it? divorce can have a serious negative effects on kids. the more this goes on the more difficult it'll be to stop with the new girl if it ever gets to a certain level.
Platinum
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TweetI totally agree that divorce can be hard on a child, but I am sure it isn't healthy to watch me and my wife fight all the time or barely speak to each other. Something has to give. I can't keep going through this cycle and I know my wife is sick of it as well. We try to work things out for our child, but IMO right now it just isn't working.
With that being said I sure as heck don't need to cheat on her, because if that got back to my daughter that would devistate her.
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