Originally Posted by
Yohimbe
I agree brotha, you are doing the right thing. Keep in church and when times get tough, look to God. He will always provide. It sounds like you two are actually the perfect compliment to each other. Of course there are things to work on, but it really sounds like you both provide each other with balance. Where your scale dips a little this way, hers dips a little that way and together you create a great balance. My fiance and I are truly opposites and it has caused great conflicts over the years, but after many long talks (as well as arguments and crying on both sides) we've come to realize why God put us together. Where I fall short, she picks me up and vice versa. These differences that have caused us many great arguments are only differences when we're not working as a team. When we are working as a single unit, these differences are actually strengths. They create balance when our two extremes come together.
Keep working on it brotha. Things will comes together. Will be keeping you two in my thoughts and prayers.