TweetBrother in my opinion you have done the right thing. I hope you both go to church together. God wants us to be happy. So get to church to pray and thank him for all that you have. If you guys go to church are honest and want to fix the minor issues you have. Your going to be fine. Your wife is a gift from God just as you are to her so treat each other as such. I honestly think you are doing the right thing, and know that you and your wife will be in my prayers.

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Originally Posted by thudgens96

Brother in my opinion you have done the right thing. I hope you both go to church together. God wants us to be happy. So get to church to pray and thank him for all that you have. If you guys go to church are honest and want to fix the minor issues you have. Your going to be fine. Your wife is a gift from God just as you are to her so treat each other as such. I honestly think you are doing the right thing, and know that you and your wife will be in my prayers.

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Thanks man. I needed to hear that. We have some issues to resolve, but we both need to work on it together. Appreciate the kind words and prayers.

TweetI agree brotha, you are doing the right thing. Keep in church and when times get tough, look to God. He will always provide. It sounds like you two are actually the perfect compliment to each other. Of course there are things to work on, but it really sounds like you both provide each other with balance. Where your scale dips a little this way, hers dips a little that way and together you create a great balance. My fiance and I are truly opposites and it has caused great conflicts over the years, but after many long talks (as well as arguments and crying on both sides) we've come to realize why God put us together. Where I fall short, she picks me up and vice versa. These differences that have caused us many great arguments are only differences when we're not working as a team. When we are working as a single unit, these differences are actually strengths. They create balance when our two extremes come together.

Keep working on it brotha. Things will comes together. Will be keeping you two in my thoughts and prayers.

Tweettry everything you can think of. after almost 8 yrs with my ex it just was not meant to be. but i think we are both happier not together and i am a better father because there are no more arguments to distract my attention away from my son. and if an argument does arise when i drop him off after a visitation and it gets to a point where no resolution is going to come of the bullsh!t i just hop in my ride and drive home. i do hope things work out and you stay a family, i really do ... but don't despair if they don't. life does goes on.

TweetFaith and.god.are.the.key brother

Tweetbrother, i wish you the best and that you find peace whatever happens. I know it can feel like your heart is is crushed, but be strong and continue to work positively and I pray only good will come to you

TweetI will share some advice I was given. Kind of hard to grasp onto, at first, but when you understand it makes sense.

Take care of yourself first

Marriage- second

Children- third

If there is work to be done within oneself, it will impact the other 2 until that work is done. Together "you" is a great (team) marriage which in turn sets the foundation for your child. Now if you dont feel you are both on the same page, keep working on yourself, and things will fall in to place where ever that may be. I am like your wife in a sense that I have put others before myself for my whole life. Its like starting all over when you lose yourself. Its all kinds of things. Keep talking and take it all in whether its hard to hear or not. You put a lot out here...that's is good and just as important to put everything out there to your wife. Oh and another thing, never e to proud to reach out for help, I know that is a hard. I wish you all the best and know we are here to listen

TweetIt's very difficult to try and justify gear to those who not only don't use it but also people who don't train. Does she hit the gym too? Ultimately, your health is a high priority. I also have kids and thankfully, spilt from their Mother. Bottom line is how much scrutiny are you willing to take over YOUR health and longevity and does it end there? To me, I'd rather be single and in shape to defend my Daughters everything vs being "mothered" and smothered. That's just me. It seems like you're all in to make things work and that's very commendable. I'd say drop to a cruise dose, skip tren, anadrol and all the mood blasters if that matters.


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Originally Posted by Yohimbe

I agree brotha, you are doing the right thing. Keep in church and when times get tough, look to God. He will always provide. It sounds like you two are actually the perfect compliment to each other. Of course there are things to work on, but it really sounds like you both provide each other with balance. Where your scale dips a little this way, hers dips a little that way and together you create a great balance. My fiance and I are truly opposites and it has caused great conflicts over the years, but after many long talks (as well as arguments and crying on both sides) we've come to realize why God put us together. Where I fall short, she picks me up and vice versa. These differences that have caused us many great arguments are only differences when we're not working as a team. When we are working as a single unit, these differences are actually strengths. They create balance when our two extremes come together.

Keep working on it brotha. Things will comes together. Will be keeping you two in my thoughts and prayers.

I do agree that opposites do attract and for good reason to compliment each other. Again I have to work on communicating with her in a soft calm way and come together with a solution to our issues. Thanks for the kind words.

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Originally Posted by DethKlok

try everything you can think of. after almost 8 yrs with my ex it just was not meant to be. but i think we are both happier not together and i am a better father because there are no more arguments to distract my attention away from my son. and if an argument does arise when i drop him off after a visitation and it gets to a point where no resolution is going to come of the bullsh!t i just hop in my ride and drive home. i do hope things work out and you stay a family, i really do ... but don't despair if they don't. life does goes on.

Thanks for sharing man. I do agree with what you say. I am going to get myself right and if thing work out great, but if we continue down this path then for the sake of both of our happiness and our daugthers it would be best to separate. However I do want to try and make this work and come together as a team and work together.

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Originally Posted by BABY1

I will share some advice I was given. Kind of hard to grasp onto, at first, but when you understand it makes sense.

Take care of yourself first

Marriage- second

Children- third

If there is work to be done within oneself, it will impact the other 2 until that work is done. Together "you" is a great (team) marriage which in turn sets the foundation for your child. Now if you dont feel you are both on the same page, keep working on yourself, and things will fall in to place where ever that may be. I am like your wife in a sense that I have put others before myself for my whole life. Its like starting all over when you lose yourself. Its all kinds of things. Keep talking and take it all in whether its hard to hear or not. You put a lot out here...that's is good and just as important to put everything out there to your wife. Oh and another thing, never e to proud to reach out for help, I know that is a hard. I wish you all the best and know we are here to listen

Thanks Baby. Last time I went through marriage issues I believe you said you ultimately have to accept who this person is. I think you said something like that and that did stick with me and has helped me. The words you just spoke also meant alot to me and gave me some things to think about. Your right. First myself, then my marriage, and then child. Thank you so much.