Tweethmmm, that is a good question...I understand the reasoning but it is probably for something deeper going on....How long have you been together? did you feel the need to ever open on before? My girlfriend and i have solos but also one joint...I wanted her to know I trust her and love her...Now, that isn't the only way but it was MY way of showing...and she's someone I want to marry. But the irony is she wil NOT use it lol...I'm like Rake...I will provide until the day I die...shes young and feisty and progressive, hates when I buy her stuff lol

Opening one out of the blue will spark distrust but maybe because something else is going on, make sense?!