TweetMan I dont know what I could do to help, but if you need anything or just talk pm me.
It's hard when you have to be straight up with someone you care about like that. I've lost family and friends to alcohol and drugs, either from over doses. Or I've loaned them money and they wont answer my calls bc I guess they think I want it back, I just miss them and wish i could see them.
You have to let them know you care but that you wont put up with being run over either. Thats a hard balance to make. I dont really know what else to say brother but I will prat for you and your family.