TweetI will chime in on this too. When i first married it was because i didn't want to break the girls heart. We lusted for the first three months then she proposed to me while we were having sex. What was i supposed to say? I did tell her she was taking things a little fast but ended up marrying her. Big mistake. i couldn't stand her when i moved in with her. she changed so much from the person i met. My current wife is the most amazing person i have ever met. It was lust but soon turned to love. This is the person i am supposed to be with. Lust is easy. Love can be just as easy though. Just have to be patient and it finds you.