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Letting Out Some Anger....
TweetI guess shes in the age that she thinks shes the shit. I grauated 2000 from high school and I had a bunch of freinds. I dont consider myself cool or popular cause I spoke to everyone in school. To me there are no such things as loosers. It all just depends if your social or not. Me I was social, would party like crazy get all drunk and all. After graduation I kinda chilled, I was more laid back, this happens to most people after graduation, that u dont get to see all of the people u used to hang out with no more(truth).
Well my sisters are in (8)middle school and in (12)high school. They think there the shit cause the little ones a cheerleader and the other one is in track or was. They call me shit that I dont do shit or Im a loser cause I aint got no friends. This pisses me off cause they dont know jack shit about life after highschool. They think life is all about friends and going out.
Hey I settle down, I dont need friends and yes they still come around asking and looking for me, but the thing is that in high school I never had a girlfirned cause I wanted the right girl for me. Now I have the girl I always wanted, decent, nice, loyal, smart, hard-worker, what else can I ask for. I settled down, no more fun and games or getting wasted coming home at 5-7 in the morning. Do I have to be cool I tell them, do I have to be all of the above, that shit pisses the shit out of me. I really hope that it gets through thier thiick heads that life after highschool is not all about partying and getting wasted, it more about thinking for you future and starting how to survuve in the real fricken world.
Today I had a fucking bad day. The thing was I was gonna go to work and my mom decided that my sister was gonna need the car for work to. I wanted to take the car cause I could come out at anytime from work, maybe earlier or later. I told my mom that I needed the car and my sister had to but in(little brat was in a pissed off mood cause of her friends) She doesnt really like her old friends so I guess she tries to take out on others. The thing is me and my mom were arguing over the car, and she has to butt in and tell me shit. I told her, your fucking talking like ur friends. She kept on telling me shit, and it got to my nerves. I m a very impatient person. I got in her face and told her to quit her shit. She kinda pushes me and I just shoved her away from me. The litttle brat comes at me trying to punch me and all. I grab her and hold her down for her not to hit me. My mom all *****ing at me not to hit her "hit her, come on, I know more than that", I aint gonna hit her but yes Im gonnna hold her form her hitting me. Well the little thing ended. The again im cooking food and she wants to pass by and she hits me again, little #@$ again did it. Again I push her away from me and hold her down. Finally the thing ended. I went away to my room.
Im here guessing why is she being like this. I NOTICED one thing, that every guy that talks to her just donest call anymore. Seriously I think guys dont really like her when they get to know her right. And about her friends her not liking them, its cause her friends are ho's and she dont like that. I dont know why she has all this anger and lets it out on others. OH AND WHEN SHE WANTS TO WORKOUT IN ROOM, she bugging the hell out of me and I cannot do that to her when Im working out cause it buggs her. I just hate that. Right now my dad tells me not to hit her, please me hitting a girl, come on. OH YEAH, but she can hit me my dad says. How stupid is that.
I guess I have come to one conclusion and get the fuck out of this house. Probably this year Im gonna think of getting a new apartment for me and my girl. I cannot stand my family anymore. My little sister(pain in the ass and spoiled), other sister(thinks shes the shit cause shes a senior and parties), mom(shes cool but sometimes ya gets to me), dad(love the guy, respect but always gives the reasons to my sisters, I always had to share with my sisters, never me), ya Im tired of this shit. When I move out I dont wanna hear crap from them for a while, I wanna live finally in piece away from all the whinning and crying.
Guys dont think Im a freak or anything like that, Im just having here trouble, and I need to start a new life away from this f-uped family I got. I wanna be on my own without anyone telling me to share, what time to go in(never do, but still), food to eat, things like that. If not Im thinking of getting a dorm down at the University this coming fall semester. Awesome rooms we got.
Im tired of writing guys.
TweetFamily is good bro I think you will miss them when you leave the home, I know when I had moved out I missed my family hell I still do! I do understand though must be hard to live with all those family, I love mine but its nice to see them when I want and not have to at home!
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Tweetwell said teekahty
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Tweeti've been kinda in the same situation like u... my sister is only 2y younger than me but she pretty much behaved like ur sisters.. and i had probs with my folks as well... always nagging and *****ing about me not doing enough..... it used to piss me off A LOT... it still does cuz even today they still do it... i've been away the last 3 years (i'm with them for 3 months or so for the summer tho) and it feels much better... i'm my own person and do whatever the fuk i want... there is noone around me to tell me what to do etc... i see them once every couple months or so... and no i don't miss them at all... i know they are still there, and i'll see them eventually...
moving out can be the best thing u do... just be careful and plan well in advance... it's not that easy in the begining... u'll have ur ups and downs for sure.....
good luck with whatever u decide to do
TweetOriginally posted by teekahty
you never really appreciate your family until they are not around all you need is a little space bro
Yeah, I guess I do need my own space. I feel pressured here in my house alrealy. Im of age already also to move out but the thing is where. I was talking to my girl right now and she calms be down. She is the only person who I can express myself towards to and understands me, cause my dad is not that type of a person to sit odnw and talk to, and my mom I dont know has her own ways of telling me things, my buds all they wanna do is fuck around and drink drink drink. But my girl is the person who cares and understands me.
I will miss them but I need to start my won life apart from them.
TweetMilk it at home for a few more years.
Once you start paying rent, bills and shit it sucks.
TweetStay at home and FINISH COLLEGE man....you'll see how shitty things can be when dumbasses with degrees in convenience store management are passing you the fuck by in the business world just because they have a degree and you don't.
You'll have family probs as you get older, you're developing your own values and ideas about how you should live your life which most likely won't gel with the people with whom you live.
TweetOriginally posted by teekahty
you never really appreciate your family until they are not around all you need is a little space bro
couldn't of said it better
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TweetI have two younger sisters, we're all a year apart. We fought like WWF until we were all in our mid twenties. Two things-as you get older it will all calm down. Your sisters just learning all the stuff you know already, and they are going off in a little bit different direction than you. Believe me they'll learn about life and how friends are.Originally posted by THE JUICE
Yeah, I guess I do need my own space. I feel pressured here in my house alrealy. Im of age already also to move out but the thing is where. I was talking to my girl right now and she calms be down. She is the only person who I can express myself towards to and understands me, cause my dad is not that type of a person to sit odnw and talk to, and my mom I dont know has her own ways of telling me things, my buds all they wanna do is fuck around and drink drink drink. But my girl is the person who cares and understands me.
I will miss them but I need to start my won life apart from them.
Two- you sound like you know exactly what you want and work real hard at making that come true for yourself. Your family may not always understand you, but they will always be there for you to help with the rough spots. Don't move yet, save your money and firm up your life a little. Your sisters and mon & dad will come around a little, it always happens. I can't imagine my life without my sisters and mom, dad gone last year. If you need the space, hang with your girl some more and just wait it out a little. It may seem really bad now, but things change faster than you think.
Luck bro-you have a good head on your shoulders, don't let this mess it up too much.
So be sure that you are makin the best of what that you have
the truth is all within yourself
TweetThanx alot guys for the replies. I appretiated alot guys thanks.
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Tweetkeep us updated
TweetI appoligized to my sister today. I hate fighting with her and others cause I really go nuts when I argue. And my gilr is one person i do no wanna lose cause of this.
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TweetOriginally posted by bigdude
Milk it at home for a few more years.
Once you start paying rent, bills and shit it sucks.
haha I bet
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"The fight is won or lost far away from witnesses—behind the lines, in the gym, and out there on the road, long before I dance under those lights."
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TweetOriginally posted by bigshug
Stay at home and FINISH COLLEGE man....you'll see how shitty things can be when dumbasses with degrees in convenience store management are passing you the fuck by in the business world just because they have a degree and you don't.
You'll have family probs as you get older, you're developing your own values and ideas about how you should live your life which most likely won't gel with the people with whom you live.
good call man
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"The fight is won or lost far away from witnesses—behind the lines, in the gym, and out there on the road, long before I dance under those lights."
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TweetJuice - just make sure you are prepared when you do finally move out. Sounds like a pain but I would tell you to figure how much it will cost you to live each month and don't even attempt it until you have 2 times that much cash sitting in the bank. Start off on the right foot! Don't dig yourself into a financial hole before you even get started. And everything with your sis and parents will turn around once you are out of the house. When you get pissed just don't over-react, you can't take back things that are said or done. The day Will come when you miss them all - and they will miss you one day as well. Be the big brother your sisters will look up to in 5 years.
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