Re: Family Issues need some advice
I have been through quite a bit of this as well...some may remember me making a few threads along these same lines, so here is my .02....
Situations like this are very tough because you are doing everything you can to make them happy and yet you feel a lot of resentment and can't figure out why. They are the only ones that know why they act like they do....but here is the tricky part....sometimes they can't even explain it. It sounds like you guys have decided on some things, so the initial advice I was going to give is a moot point now.
Now it all comes down to you guys deciding to fix it or move on. I couldn't imagine having to go through this with a kid involved. But like everyone else has stated, no one really deserves to be treated like this. And even from the hormone perspective, she is not so completely out of balance that she doesn't realize that she is treating you this way. If this was truly out of her control, she would know something is messed up and want to find out and fix whatever it is. It sounds like she is very selfish and needs to grow up a little (no ill intentions there my man). With that being said, if she doesn't want to do what needs to be done (counseling for example), then it would probably be in both of your best interest too move on and be happy. Life is too short for unnecessary stress.
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