Originally Posted by
Dzone
Hey bro, good that you can come on here and talk about it. This will help you. Theres good people here who you can trust.
I agree with whats been posted on this thread. You sound like a real good dude and its a shame she doesn't appreciate it.
My first thought when I was reading your post was "Holy shit, this chick needs to be cut off immediately! Get rid of her and stop paying for all her shit." But then you said you have a daughter together and that def changes the entire dynamic. So I suppose you still need to try to find a way to make it work.
What you said about her being sneaky and then blowing a gasket when you talk to her is a humongous red flag. Her lack of appreciation is also another major flag.
I dont know how you do it, bro. I hope you two can fix things, esp since there is a child involved.
But also, if your daughter is seeing this kind of meanness and rage, thats not good for her in the long run. Man, this is a tough one brutha. Relationships can be complicated, they can be wonderful and they can also be hell on earth if youre with the wrong person. I wish you all the best ,man. Feel free to come on here and vent as much as you need to.