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    need input

    People involve-
    Myself, My client Carson his newly divorced x Nancy and my trainer (we will call her "trainer" lol) The trainer is Nancy's trainer as well.

    Scenario-

    My client and friend Carson has asked out my trainer. My trainer would like to date him bc he's a great guy and is a real estate tycoon (loaded to the gills with $) Carson was left by his wife, nancy. They divorced about 2 months ago.

    My question is, Is there any way that my trainer can date carson without making waves/drama with her friend and client nancy?

    She asked me and i told her that i have nothing to say about the situation. Whatever i say directly influences my client/friend, his son (also my client) and Nancy, a very good friend and the way they think of me. I basicly told her that she's an adult and should come up with the answer herself. Obviously that wasn't the answer she wanted so i turn to you people, unbiased and brutally honest...


    thoughts?
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    that just sounds like trouble bro. not sure what to tell ya.
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      IM KINDA IN THE SAME SITUATION....IM CURIOUS TO SEE THIS
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      • #4
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        hmmm....I don't think it can work? I'd tell the trainer to stay away from her clients -ex. It is just drama waiting to happen!!! If she does decide to see him, she needs to keep quiet about it!

        Why did Nancy dump the real estate tycoon?
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        • #5
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          Originally posted by supasaiyan99
          hmmm....I don't think it can work? I'd tell the trainer to stay away from her clients -ex. It is just drama waiting to happen!!! If she does decide to see him, she needs to keep quiet about it!

          Why did Nancy dump the real estate tycoon?
          She's 33, he's 45...they've been together for 15 years..i guess the age difference finally caught up to them. It's not a bitter divoce at all, they are still very close friends.

          Keeping quiet about it wont work...we live in a small town and we all have the same friends..

          i suspect that Nancy already knows Carson has asked her out...

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          • #6
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            bro, def its gonna cause u drama, he said/she said bullshit and since all of u are friends and if u say something to some1 (honeslty), i'am sure the other party is gonna take it the wrong way and be like why are u on his/her side and def gonna put u in a situation where u dont want to be..if i was u: i would say: i wish u the best that is all what i have to say or i have no comment..

            once it comes to exsss and current gf, def prob is waiting to explode....it happened to me toooo many times due to my ex/current gf (as an example).
            tough situation nate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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            • #7
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              Originally posted by BIG_MIKE1979
              bro, def its gonna cause u drama, he said/she said bullshit and since all of u are friends and if u say something to some1 (honeslty), i'am sure the other party is gonna take it the wrong way and be like why are u on his/her side and def gonna put u in a situation where u dont want to be..if i was u: i would say: i wish u the best that is all what i have to say or i have no comment..
              Thats pretty much what i did. I'm not about to screw myself out of my best paying client or set myself up into a huge drama fest.

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              • #8
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                sounds like a headache. she should hold off, at least till the ex "lands" someone else. if they (the trainer and the ex-wife) are friends, couldnt she mention it to her to get a responce? kinda feel her out about it? i'm just saying, if i wanted to lay pam anderson, i could work it into a convo with kid rock i'm sure
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                • #9
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                  If the "trainer" wants to be adult about it and is afraid about friendship and her clients bus/friendship, it would prob be a good idea for her to tell the ex about her intensions and basically ask if it would be ok if she and Carson were to date, and if it would interfere with their relationship and for her to be honest with her answer. If it would, then she should not proceed. It is the most tactfull thing for her to do. This is not the only guy in the world and if it causes probs and her client tell her it would interfere and she goes ahead anyways, then she prob deserves what the outcome might bring. You should not get involved what so ever.

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                  • #10
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                    Originally posted by mick-G
                    If the "trainer" wants to be adult about it and is afraid about friendship and her clients bus/friendship, it would prob be a good idea for her to tell the ex about her intensions and basically ask if it would be ok if she and Carson were to date, and if it would interfere with their relationship and for her to be honest with her answer. If it would, then she should not proceed. It is the most tactfull thing for her to do. This is not the only guy in the world and if it causes probs and her client tell her it would interfere and she goes ahead anyways, then she prob deserves what the outcome might bring. You should not get involved what so ever.
                    thats pretty much what i feel. BUT, she left him, not the other way around....

                    kinda screws things up ya know...

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                    • #11
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                      Originally posted by NATE
                      thats pretty much what i feel. BUT, she left him, not the other way around....

                      kinda screws things up ya know...
                      obviously, if she left him ,she has no feeling nor care about his ass and i dont see a prob them to dating since the wife left..i guess its her loss and if she cant handle the jealousy thing , too bad, she should have stayed .....

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                        Originally posted by BIG_MIKE1979
                        obviously, if she left him ,she has no feeling nor care about his ass and i dont see a prob them to dating since the wife left..i guess its her loss and if she cant handle the jealousy thing , too bad, she should have stayed .....
                        One would think. Thats logical thinking, to bad logic fails when feelings and emotions are involved.

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                        • #13
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                          she should discuss it with her out of courtesy (sp?)
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                          • #14
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                            Originally posted by NATE
                            thats pretty much what i feel. BUT, she left him, not the other way around....

                            kinda screws things up ya know...
                            Doesn't matter. She has an interest in her ex and has a bus relationship with her, so if she wants to be tactful and upfront, then it would be wise for her to take the initative here in doing the right thing. If she doesn't, its not going to make her look upstanding. Senerio: My wife and i get divoriced (doesn't matter who divoriced who) I get a bus partner of the opposite sex and is friends with my wife. Don't you think it would be tactful for the bus partner to let my ex wife know her intentions, especially if we had a long relationship and they are both friends??

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