i have nt posted about any of my problems in a long time!!!but

[ByRoN]

Tweethere we go!!!


got married sold MY house my 2002 avalacnche got into debt becasue i started a new job needed a van and tools the selling of the hosue got me out of this debt but now we have a new hosue after buying this house thing wer going good the first 2 months i was not making a lot of cash as i am in sales and sales were really down now this year i am projected to make 60-70 i am working on 3 huge condos that we start installing in mid of febuary so i started bouincing again for extra cash to try and help my wife has quit her job because she was people taken from her and that was effecting her and her life became a hell she was missrable and crying almost everyday wel she is a waitress at the same bar i work at i have got one pay check since dec 1 i used tha to pay the jan house payment she has gone back to work at hooters tues-thurs and friday and sat night at the bar. how the hell do you guys do this i am so miserbale i am on anti depreset and 2 anaxiety meds. stil not helping and i will not see a check till what i sell has been installed. well my factory has pushed almost everything a month behind for when i will recieve and it will be installed and have acumalted some debt and its killing that i am unable to pay this off and not even really pay all of my bills god this is killing me!!!! thanks for letting me vent!!!

[Merc]

TweetByron keep your head up bro. Sorry everything is going so bad for the both of you I hope that it turns around for you and your wife

[Corrodo]

TweetThese are the trials and tribulations that makes you become a man...I am in school working part time and still manage to train full time for a show...But I also rent an apt and have an 01 truck that isnt that expensive payment wise. Make some cutbacks and maybe ask for some help, we have all been there. Without the bad you can not relish in the good when it is there. In a year this will be all over and you will be in a better state....The road of life has many trials and hardships and how you deal with them is what makes you a better person...I was in the same boat a year ago, and in a year my life is totally different!! Its good to vent and talk about problems, make sure you do that often and take some time to do something fun that you enjoy to relieve the stress....Its only life, dont take it to serious cause at times we do and it gets to us.

[ByRoN]

Tweeti drive a 98 jeep and she drives a 98 yukon we sold her car too but were 5500 begative on it! the yukon was paid for till re had to pay the 5500

[SMILEY FACE]

TweetByron..like corrodo said: cut on a lot of stuff..
i feel what u are going thru, and always bad times will bring u good times in the future but u have to work for it and suffer..Def u need your wife out that hooter ****, i dont care if she is super hot or not, she is your wife and belongs to u and only to your eyes and not 2 any other men out there.... U need to get OFF THAT DEPRESSANT MEDS, ITS TEMPORARILY AND DOWN THE ROAD U WILL GET ADDICTED...... work your ass off byron... i mean every1 knows i work at a bank and does not pay good..iam going bck to school in spring full time and working at the bank full time and getting ready for a show in august..trust me i aint gonna have time to sleep....i'am gonna have to suffer in order to make over 60k and it will happen very soon.
keep your head up byron and your dreams will come true eventually...
its part of life and it has its up and down.

[TestRip7]

TweetThe best way to prevent things like this from happening in the future is to be prepared financially. Almost 90% of the population does not take the time to save money for the unexpected and for retirement. It doesn't make anyone a bad person, but people just get so caught up in their present life and toys, houses, etc.. that they dont take time to think about what could go wrong in the future. Take a percentage out of every paycheck and put it in a high interest bearing mutual fund account. Something like 10% is a good place to start or whatever you can afford. Typically the rates on these specific accounts are in the neighborhood of 6% interest. Start out with having a goal of 3 months salary saved up, once you get to this point shoot for 6 months salary. Having this has helped me out alot with no financial troubles whatsoever.

[mick-G]

TweetByRon, some advise. Never buy a house unless you are financially stable. What was the big rush to buy one anyways?? I think the prob with you and your wife is that you want these expensive toys, then later cant afford to pay for them and have to sell them, and it gets you into debt. Now you have older vehicles, but alittle too late. I thought your wife was into some kind of skin elastisian (sp) training or something like that. Damn that has to be hard having to see your wife working at Hooters and bars. I would never have my wife doing that. Anyways, if that doesn't bother you, hell, have her get into modeling shoots, or something. Im sure she can make plenty of $ doing that, while you need to look for something more stable with a steady cash flow, even if it is alittle lower in pay, if it is steady income it is better. What was she doing that she quit that you said something about seeing her friends etc (didn't make sence to me)? For a new couple you should have stayed in an apartment, at least you could find one possibly you can afford. I know homes are an investment, but if you don't have enough down payment and the mortgage is too high then you are...hows the saying "cutting your nose to spite your face", not sure i got that right, lol! Anyways, sounds like iam lecturing, but you really need to cut back, even if it mean getting rid of this house and forgeting about the picket fence for awhile. You need to save lots of cash, then think about a home as an investment later.

[Stackt]

TweetJust hang in there thats all you can do and work your ass off ! There are times when it gets tough like corrado said these are the steps in becoming a man and in the end you will be proud of yourself cause you worked so hard to get there .I got into alot of mess with my cc bills and just this past week I used more to gamble online and Im in more debt ! You got to work hard for your money and save thats the best solution .

[jipped genes]

Tweetthat is a ***** bro. i have been there. take care of your wife, support her in finding a job she really likes. when she does both of your lives will get better and the debts will slowly get where they should be. it takes time and patience

[angryoldman]

TweetListen kid, it gets better. Money and sex are the 2 main reasons a marriage breaks up. Money can be made back. Love lost is harder to get back. Don't worry about the money. As long as you and your wife love each other, everyhing else is secondary. Don't let money come between a good relationship. Things will get better all around. Trust me. Hang in there. If you need anything, like money, advice, whatever.....don't hesistate to call Mikey. He drives an expensive benz. He's loaded.

[SMILEY FACE]

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Listen kid, it gets better. Money and sex are the 2 main reasons a marriage breaks up. Money can be made back. Love lost is harder to get back. Don't worry about the money. As long as you and your wife love each other, everyhing else is secondary. Don't let money come between a good relationship. Things will get better all around. Trust me. Hang in there. If you need anything, like money, advice, whatever.....don't hesistate to call Mikey. He drives an expensive benz. He's loaded.

**** i saved up for one year and 4 months and sold my trans am and i still owe $32000..... beside thats what i call be patient no i'am NOTTTTTTTT rich

[snickers1]

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.don't hesistate to call Mikey. He drives an expensive benz. He's loaded.

yep yep all the bling in the world and no jingle jingle at all in the pockets

[SMILEY FACE]

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yep yep all the bling in the world and no jingle jingle at all in the pockets

[snickers1]

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ok mr i saved some money sold and car and still owe 32k well duh did you forget you bought a benzo.... basically your saying hey byron we all live beyond or means it is normal get over it buddy

[kite]

TweetLots of good advice here Byron, there's nothing more I can really add. Just keep pluggin away man, it'll turn around for you guys.