57 Years old and can't relate. Having said that there are times when I can't cum. !: To drunk. 2: Red kratom and or pain killers. 3 Already got off 3 times today. It may be a mental thing. Are you telling yourself that you are fucking the hottest chick in the world. 70 percent of getting off is mental just ask any honest woman. Or maybe just maybe you need to have sex with someone you are in love with. The last one ended badly and I guess I'm just not ready to ever feel like that again. Get over it you sound like chic.