TweetMy ex a few years back started gaining weight. I noticed of course but I loved her and it didn't bother me all that much. She liked to eat sweets and it caught up to her. Plus she was depressed about stuff. Bad time for both of us
TweetOk guys we know someone we know her husband was cheating on his wife with a younger more beautiful women he got caught. My point she is a big women and even getting bigger after this. Can you fall out of love if your wife starts getting fat as shit I mean total monster gaining weight . Ill word it this way do you think theirs men who fall out of love when there wife starts to get huge as a house. Now me personally I would hate it if baby1 weighed 200lbs thats a whole lot of ass for her size and I met her at 21yrs at she weighed 90lbs I nailed that shit back then,lol I like them skinny lol. Honest guys. I wouldn't divorce if my wife if she got fat,
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TweetMy ex a few years back started gaining weight. I noticed of course but I loved her and it didn't bother me all that much. She liked to eat sweets and it caught up to her. Plus she was depressed about stuff. Bad time for both of us
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Tweeti wouldnt leave mine but i would def have to put her to work. unless their is a serious underlying health issue, sitting on your ass getting fat is bull. not just from an appearance standpoint but health in general. if you want to eat garbage then you have to put the work in. if you dont want to put the work in then dont eat garbage. pretty cut and dry to me but then again i wouldnt roll out on mine at all.
let me just add this one in. i would leave mine if sex was cut off. no way in hell i would live like some of the guys i know. some get it once a week some get it maybe once a month and a couple are even less. that to me would be the end of the road. i get laid daily if i want and normally do. in prep a couple times a week because i am super tired and drained but we def have a very healthy sex life and have been married for almost 20 years. that though would be the deal breaker, no sex and i am out no questions or arguing at all
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TweetPeople can change for many reasons, both men, and women. If you make the choice to cheat, it really isn't about the person you cheat, on its about "you". I guess it would depend on why the weight gain bothers you? I feel real love won't walk away from someone because of such a reason. A meaningful conversation is a good start if you really do care about your relationship. Weight is definitely a touchy subject for a woman, she knows if she is gaining ...
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TweetKudos to any guy who stays devoted to a woman after she gets big as a house. I know a guy who works out and is ripped and has a wife who is totally obese and cellulite bulging out everywhere and yet they seem to have a great relationship.go figure. Being honest, I dont know if I could do that. That would be tough
TweetThis is a fine line to cross. I've been in a relationship where she put on about 40lbs. And it was very noticeable. Of course we had the hypothetical conversation about this very scenario and when that scenario was brought up and she asked me if I would tell her that she is putting on weight that I should tell her. So, fast forward a few years and boom scenario happens and what do I do? I punk out and don't say anything because I don't want to hurt her. Instead I get her ass into the gym every day. I don't think it's right to leave someone in that scenario unless you have made some sort of effort either communicating or physically taking the person to the gym and if that doesn't work out then I think leaving the person is valid. I believe in a relationship with both parties involved that they should try to keep themselves in good health and condition as an effort to better themselves which in turn betters the relationship.
TweetOn the other side of the coin is a guy who is marrried to a beautiful woman and he lets himself go to shit. Ive seen this and the woman stays devoted. This girl was the most beautiful woman I ever laid eyes on and her husband was a lardass and didnt even have a job. I guess some guys are just lucky that they marry a goddess who wont leave them no matter how bad they let themselves get.
TweetYeah, that is a tough one. You cannot say "Sweetheart I love you but you are fat and I no longer find you attractive."
Even if it is the 100% truth. After our son was born my wife continued to eat the same way and was about 25# overweight. I encouraged her to go to the gym and made healthier foods for lunch and dinner. She lost the weight on her own really as she is very self aware.
All this fat acceptance bullshit. "He should love me if I weigh 300#!" she says. Hey easier to love but if you are not attracted to fat women then how is that going to work? You cannot force attractiveness on others. I could not do it for sure. I can see a guy cheating to fulfill his sexual needs with an attractive woman if he is not attracted to or even repulsed buy his wife who let herself go. I am not condoning it, I just understand it.
It is a lack of respect to allow yourself to become fat and unappealing to your spouse male or female.
TweetI certainly wouldn't leave my wife if she gained a ton of weight, but I would definitely be honest and respectful if she asked about it. I would come from a place of love and try to be a source of motivation to let her know that I'm here to help in any way I can. I wouldn't approach it from a physical perspective, but mostly from a health standpoint and try to be a source of encouragement on being healthy and living a healthy lifestyle.
It wouldn't be an awkward conversation coming from me since I've been in the bodybuilding and fitness world for 20 years and that's all she knows of me. However, I can imagine that being a difficult conversation coming from a guy who may not routinely workout.
TweetIve seen some BBWs who were freakin gorgeous. I know 3 brothers who all workout in the gym and all 3 guys married women that were HUGE and utterly beautiful. To each their own. Would you ever be with a woman who had a drop dead gorgeous face and the rest of her looked like the michelin tire man?
TweetSome big ladies have beautiful faces but i cannot get past the gut and the hail damage, skin tags and calloused skin between the legs and such. I guess all big uns do not have this but lets just stop at a gut on a woman is a bigger turn off to me than herpes.
Tweeti can be honest...i love my wife but she has gained a few pounds. it does bother me. it makes me mad to a point. why not
care more for yourself and your partner to keep yourself in shape? the more i say about it the more she DOES NOTHING. and that makes it even worse!
TweetWell here's to you getting herpes!
TweetIf a girl is fat, ok, but if she is fat and has ugly feet, theres no way
TweetSame boat here.
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