I certainly wouldn't leave my wife if she gained a ton of weight, but I would definitely be honest and respectful if she asked about it. I would come from a place of love and try to be a source of motivation to let her know that I'm here to help in any way I can. I wouldn't approach it from a physical perspective, but mostly from a health standpoint and try to be a source of encouragement on being healthy and living a healthy lifestyle.

It wouldn't be an awkward conversation coming from me since I've been in the bodybuilding and fitness world for 20 years and that's all she knows of me. However, I can imagine that being a difficult conversation coming from a guy who may not routinely workout.